What is the right age to love ?

India
December 28, 2008 10:27am CST
Many people now started to love in the school days itself do you think it is right? i guess it is not healthy but i don't know the right age to love .
6 responses
• United States
29 Dec 08
I certainly don't think there is an age. I think a lot of young people (actually all the way up to their early 20s in some cases) mistake romantic love for deep affection or infatuation. Or hormones It's all about maturity and even though parents may think they know what is right for their kids - "You can date when you are 16" - it may not be. I may get in trouble for saying so but I think the only person who will know when they are mature enough to truly be in love is the kid themselves. Unfortunately they will think it a lot before really knowing it which can lead to trouble. But parents are basing their opinions about their kids' maturity on things like how well they do their chores, follow rules, keep their grades up, come in before curfew, if they can talk about their problems openly, but just because they are responsible doesn't make them emotionally mature enough to know the difference between love and hormones.
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• Philippines
29 Dec 08
There's no age or place when it comes of loving someone, we don't plan it, it just comes, we just feel it. What's important is we should know our priority, our limit specially in the younger age. Don't go beyond the boundaries, don't rush, enjoy, and make it as your inspiration.:) Happy mylotting!
• India
29 Dec 08
But what do you think about the school going guy's love?
@y2krimi (133)
• India
28 Dec 08
Love can happen at any where at any place and in any time.but i think people should choice their life partner mental maturation,because in the school days students(may or may not adult) lack the mental maturity to make sure that his or her partner is suitable for them.But if they think that love is a game for time pass then this theory is not applicable.
• India
28 Dec 08
Hi, The right age to love is any age after you are settled. If a guy is settled at the age of 18, I suppose he is licenced to love, if he is settled after 25 it is then he supposed to love. ofcourse readers might say that love is a feeling born in the heart and it happens involuntarily. But guys, please do understand that our parents have high expectations on us and we should be filled with only thought. it is our first duty and everything else in this world is secondary. Therefore, see that you are through with everything i mean your commitments and in a secured position, then you can divert and indulge in all these kind of activities. cheers!!!!!!!!!!
@kg4bah (78)
• United States
30 Dec 08
How many can say they married their highschool sweetheart? I can. In this world, you don't have to have a "license" to love and no one tells you when to fall in love. When you fall in love it will just happen. However, the love in the school days may not be love, it could be just pure obsession, but you never know. I fell in love when I was young. Why do I think it was love? Because I am married to him. I am 23 and have been married for 5 years. I still care a lot about him and always will. :-) ~Melanie PS, Never under estimate those young minds. While it may not be right to not do school work and sneak out at night, there is nothing wrong with loving someone in school, it could equal to bigger and better things.
@Seyduna (129)
• Turkey
28 Dec 08
I know that i only fell in love with a girl in highschool and from that time i cant remember even once that i really loved a girl.I just like a girl but it's all.I even still think sometimes that i love that girl in high school.She sometimes comes to my dreams despite i lost contact with her in real life. My answer is the ages 17-18