Have You Ever Thought Someone Was Lying To You And In Fact They Weren't?
By singlemommy
@singlemommy (2955)
United States
December 28, 2008 11:51am CST
I've been talking to a local truck driver in my area for about 2 years now. He is married, so we keep our situation quiet as best we can. The other day another truck driver that works for the same company as him came in. After the driver left, my co-worker came to me and said that the driver was asking about me. He said he knew that I was seeing the other driver. I told my co-worker that he was lying. I thought he was just trying to mess with my head because we are always joking around at work. Well, the next day I asked the driver that I've been talking to if he had ever said anything to his co-worker about me and he said yes that he had told him we were friends. I found it kind of odd that he would tell him since he is married and he didn't want our relationship to get out. So, I apologized to my co-worker for not believing what he had told me to be the truth. Have you ever told someone that you thought they were lying to you and in fact found out that they were telling the truth?
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@jenrl17 (420)
• United States
29 Dec 08
The closest I come to this question is just the other day, Christmas early morning at my friends house. Ive been staying here for a little while and he doesnt like it (Ill be leaving soon hopefully) but I am good friends with his brother who is also here. Well, the other night/early morning, the one I dont get along with decided to mess with me and play mind games, probably with the intention of telling me to get out. What he did was, after I had went to sleep, he came downstairs where I was to get some food. He went back upstairs, no biggy, right? Wrong. I had woke up a couple hours later, only to find the phone off the charger. I rely on that phone to communicate with my b/f whos going through a lot right now, so when the jerk took the phone off the charger, I was p/o'd. I was waiting for my b/f to call me back and didnt know when that would be. He took it upon himself to take the phone upstairs and hide it. Well, when I woke up and saw it missing, I went upstairs (this was at 2am mind you), asked my one friend if he took it, he said no. I went to the jerk, asked him if he took it, he said no. I immediately accused him of lying, 1) cause he always does, dont know why and 2) cause I know he took it. He was the only one who came downstairs that night/early morning and I knew it was him cause of how he sounds coming down the stairs. So in this case, he wasnt necessarily lying per say, but going around the truth. My question was if he had the phone. Technically, he didnt have it on him, but he did take it, hidding it upstairs on the towel rack, going around the truth.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
29 Dec 08
That is mean. Sounds like a real jerk. Thanks for commenting.
Happy MyLotting,
SingleMommy
@jenrl17 (420)
• United States
29 Dec 08
Oh he is! Hes been a liar the whole time Ive known him and Ive known him since '87. I dont know why he does that (lies so much) but when you have a habit of lying as much as he does, its totally understandable if someone doesnt believe him like I didnt, you know? I even told that to his face cause I was so mad at him being so childish with the phone. I heard he even tells taxis off on the phone, calling them slackers and he needs taxis to get to work. Not smart and thats just not right. I told his brother last night, after finding out that he threw my body puff for the shower out in the garbage (just to piss me off, being more childish) that how he treats people, not only me, will come back to him. There are ways to do things and he does it all wrong. A real shame really and I feel bad for his g/f that he just started going with cause she has no clue about how he truely is. I feel sorry for her and any other 'victims' that follow lol.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
29 Dec 08
My son's father is one of those people that lies more often than he tells the truth, so there are a few times that I thought he was lying about something when really he was not. I find with him it is easier to assume he is lying until I find out otherwise.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
29 Dec 08
My daughter's father is a compulsive liar. I'm used to hearing lies from him all the time. I hate dealing with him when it comes to our daughter because he lies so much. My daughter lives with him primarily and he's a real jerk. So, I completely understand where you are coming from.



