who makes the most shopping, is it the parents or children?

I tell you, for parents like us, specially mommies, it's really tempting to go out there in the mall and see these very nice stuffs for kids. I am very guilty of that too. Sometimes, it's really my time to buy my personal things, but when I see these nice pair of shoes or dresses, I can't help buying them. It's because it makes us proud to see our kids looking good. Psychologically, we think that when others see them looking good, we are praised as parents. It's really good to bring a list when shopping so we can stick out on what's needed. And it's also a good idea to open a bank account in the name of the kids we will doubt buying sometimes because we know we can just deposit it on their account.

if i feel that i have to shop for some things that i am in need of, i go alone and shop. if it is the children who has caused the shopping to be carried out, i bring them along so they can choose that which they would really like to have. if we feel the time is free for all of us, we squander time around at the malls with whatever there might be at hand. this time, it is free wheeling and much more fun. try doing this, friend and discover the fun of having to go shopping without pressures.