JUST made FRIENDS with my EX'S GIRLFRIEND!

i think he is probably just scared that you will tell her his dirty little secrets so don't stop texting and talking to her unless SHE tells you.

To be honest with you, I feel that it is "unhealthy" to cultivate friendship with your ex's g/f. I used the word "unhealthy" because it is capable of always making you feel the pain of your loss. To the new g/f, it could be either of healthy or unhealthy. If she breeds the fear that you might use the opportunity to stage a come-back, she will feel insecure. Alternatively, she could feel gallantly victorious that she has gained what you have lost. Your ex himself would feel uncomfortable with that situation. In my own part of the word, such a friendship would be viewed with suspicion of intended harm to both your ex and his g/f. To most of us, it is an artificial thing that needs to be watched with all sense of caution. I would suggest that you cut off the friendship in line with your ex's advice without bothering to confirm anything from his new g/f.

u should call her and ask her if she said that. that way u know for sure. don't take his word for it, he could just be jealous. if she did then u know to toss the number, if she didn't well just see where the friendship takes u!

I think it would only be fair, to both your ex AND his new girlfriend, if you did away with your newfound friendship. Obviously you and he broke up for a reason - and I know how girlfriends talk... afterall that's the whole purpose of having a friend! - I don't think your friendship will promote a very normal relationship between those two... maybe they're a good match for each other, but I'm sure you have some negative feelings about him and it would be horrible if you fed her all the details of what you hated about him. It's best for you to find OTHER friends and leave those two to their own relationship.... Plus, wouldn't be weird to have to hear the intimate details of their dating life? I would think that would be hard on YOU as well!!!

hi,kixsh,but i suggest you don't make friends with your ex boyfriend's girlfriedn,cuz your ex boyfriend don't want you to contact his girlfriend, if you do that, it will make him unhappy,also make you unhappy, why not go to find other good friends. right? Hope i don't make you sad or unhappy, it is just my suggestion.