What if no one cares what you say?

January 1, 2009 1:00am CST
It happens to me and happened numerous times. Do you take that as a matter of ignorance or look forward to put on your point more firmly?
3 responses
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
8 Jan 09
It does not matter. There is more than one reason why people would not care with what we say. They may be preoccupied with their own thoughts and have no time or inclination to pay attention to what others have to say. They may think we are not important to listen to. They may be ignorant and not interested in the subject matter. Usually we tend to point our fingers at someone else for our failures. But have we ever considered that it may be due to our own fault? We may not be eloquent enough resulting in people finding it difficult to understand what we were trying to put forward. We may be incoherent, presenting disjointed facts to them. Our presentation technique may put them off. The point is we should check ourselves first. Strengthen our weaknesses before making the next presentation. all the best, rosdimy
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
6 Jan 09
I have experienced that before and I sometimes think it is ignorance and I usually alwasy try to make my point more firmly because I feel I am right. It can be especially frustrating when someoen is just being stubborn and does not want to hear or understand what I am saying.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
Hi There! Welcome year 2009! I don’t know, I haven’t been in that situation but if no one cares? Then I will care if I will feel a sense of caring inside me for that person… Thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting! Cheers!