I am not feeling this winter, friends?

India
January 1, 2009 1:13am CST
I spent the new years eve with my best friend which is me. All alone watching TV and drinking water and cookies. How on planet a person can survive without a friend?
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12 responses
• United States
1 Jan 09
You can survive if you think you can. If you are a loner then that is really who you are because if not you will tend to go and find friends. Some people play online games or answer forum like this here on MyLot then that is their way of passing the time away. Other people can survive of being alone as long as they havetv, cellphone or computer to keep them company. Oh well, there are a lot of ways of making friends. It's all up to you. There are also many things we can do alone. My stepson stays in his room most of the time. He talks to his online ga,e friends and even to his self but he survived. He is one good kid and he is not crazy. I think he just really want to be alone most of the time. When he gets bored of being alone he takes a walk. Then he goes back and watch tv, draw or read. He knows how to keep himself busy.
• China
1 Jan 09
Hey, maybe you should take more care of your stepson, it is abnormal for a kid stays in his room most of the time. This is just my private opinion.
• India
1 Jan 09
surviving is not difficult but its a matter of trust and faith. happy new year friend.
• United States
2 Jan 09
My daughte also spends most of her time in her room. She has loads of friends online and off. I check her computer viewing to ensure no nutcases are contacting her. She's a computer geek and loves it! She goes to school dances, church parties and other social events, but her computer is her real life. Since I'm a computer geek too, I understand completely. Maggie
@UK_Shree (3604)
1 Jan 09
Hey being your own best friend is great! It means that you can count on yourself and you don't always have to rely on others or be dependent on others! I think it is good to have friends, but don't worry if out of them you do not have a best friend! Happy New Year
• India
1 Jan 09
I will take your advise. Happy new year
@sonusd (1547)
• India
1 Jan 09
it is impossible to leave with out a friend because we can share our happy and sorrowness with him/her so we need at least a friend in our life which is the pure relation between two person
• India
1 Jan 09
ya we can choose friends and should take care of our choice. happy new year
• Indonesia
1 Jan 09
hey Sunil, i just want to say "every body need friend" can U imagine if any body have not friend?
• India
1 Jan 09
I too need but do you think its easy to get a trustfull friend? Happy new year
• China
1 Jan 09
Great Congratulation, I am so galt to know that. Nice to meet you!
• India
1 Jan 09
Glad to meet you too bro. Happy new year
• India
3 Jan 09
hmm tough situation man i feel sorry for u mayb u can spend some tiem online with some friends? happy lotting and have a blessed new year
• United States
3 Jan 09
If you don't have any friends, why don't you join some organization where you can meet people?
• United States
2 Jan 09
Spending New Years Eve alone is really not that bad, if you like your own company lol. No really there are times that I wish I had more private time, because even though I do not have a lot of friends, I get a lot of invites to go places and do things, but I am so busy, and of course there is family, oh my if you don't go to a family get together on a holiday you are the most evil person on the face of the earth for about 3 months. So go out and maybe (if you have time) and volunteer for a childrens group or a homeless group. I do not know how old you are but finding real people to hang with is not that hard (unless you do not want to), but enjoy life to the fullest and have some fun. Sarafina50
• United States
2 Jan 09
I spent New Years Eve alone with my cat. I made myself a nice dinner, watched the New Year com in on tv, I am grateful to have my little apartment. my cat, my health, and food to eat. i always try to stay positive
@dsrtrose (166)
• United States
2 Jan 09
"To thine own self be true!", First know and love yourself. Ifu are comfortable being with yourself, then, u will be comfortable being with others. There are many people with many friends, who do not know themselves and therefore cannot bring all they can offer to a friendship. I do not thinkk it is so bad to spend time with yourself. That IS why God created computers isn't it??
• United States
2 Jan 09
Hi sunilpatel, I used to wait for friends to come to me; it didn't work. Once I started doing things to help others, I suddenly had more friends than I knew what to do with. I joined a local church and became an active member, helped out at the local hospitals and food banks. The folks you meet in these places are the best because they are more concerned for others than for themselves. Get out, get going and get to meeting the best of the best. You won't be lonely any more! Maggie
@missybear (11393)
• United States
1 Jan 09
Is there a reason you don't have any friends, like a contagious disease or something like that. Just kidding, I'm sure you have friends but maybe you prefer to be alone at times.