Forgive your ENEMY....POssible in real life ??

It is possible to forgive our enemy in real life. Maybe not at the moment of anger, but some time after that. It takes a lot of inner strength, especially after the enemy has destroyed our life, our future. In the past there had been people who regarded me as an enemy and treated me as one. At one point my life was made difficult by someone who had a lot of influence in society. My students wanted to do something to him because they hated seeing what was done to me. I stopped them by saying they would get into troule. I preferred leaving things like this to God. Now this person is no longer a well known figure, and he has lost a lot of respect. In summary it is possible with a lot of effort. all the best, rosdimy

Usually,it's easy to say more than action. But i will forgive my enmey in my real life. Why not? i remember some words from mother Teresa,If you are successful,you will win some faults friends and true enemies.succeed,anyway. I believe that there is a destiny. Someone who love you or someone who hate you.This is common life. Here i would to talk about a little story about my true enmey.When i was a primary student,12 years old at that time,i was scolded and abused at one of my close friends.I couldn't accept the fact that she hated me.when i knew the truth why she didn't satisfied with me,i was thoroughly angry with her.Is that real friendship? i was jsut promoted to be a moniter,and she envied me very much.Moreover,she told to all the friends of us that i was under qualified for this job. How gloomy days i got! What should i do next? i couldn't help asking myself,is she still my best friend? Then i hided my broken heart and did well in my job to a good moniter. Finally,i proved my ability. Of course,she was not my best friend any more,but not a enemy at all.Just a acquaintance friend to me.i should appreciate her,to make me more mature, and to learn how to forgive the person who hurt you so much.i know i will meet a lot of enemies in my life,this is just the beginning.i've prepared how to face to them,coz i believe deeply,nothing is occasionally,and life is but a span,why don't i choose to live free and gracefully?

Yes it is possible... I easily forgive but sometimes I hardly forget....

nope tht is hard call but if its for the gr8er good then i thnk i would reconsider fogiveing him/her then! but not before and stay away from him for a while tht would help w/ ur anger happy lotting and have a blessed new year

i think that being human gives us all faults and for me personally its very hard to forgive certain people for certain things. My husbands ex was a big problem for him and i even though before he and i met his ex and i were friends but once i got together with my husband she became weird (in the worst possible way) and tried to be very controlling over us i don't want to go into specifics but she used their kids against him and no matter what we did or said or how we tried to make her happy she still wouldn't let up eventually you then expect that person to do nothing but behave badly she has yet to prove to me that she will change and be a respectfull person to anyone. If its not her way then its no way at all and she throws a fit. But all in all it really depends on the person and what the offense was

hell no, naturally, humanly it is very very impossible to forgive your enemies. BUT i have come to realise one truth and that is WITH GOD NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE it takes only God's grace accompanied with determination for forgiveness to take place. remember forgiveness is divine not natural. it comes from the inside, your mind must be free of hate, anger and disguise