I lost my father today.

India
January 3, 2009 5:58am CST
My new year start in a very bad way. Today I have lost my father in 06:30 am in the morning. Everyday bring a peace and charming in every face of the world but it bring tear and sadnes to me and my family member. My whole family cries but why my tear has dries. I am angry with my god, why he has taken our joy and happy. I love my father very much but don't want to lose my mother so my tear dries but heart cry with deeper pain and love.
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
condolense to you khan and to your family as well. i lost my dad 13 years ago, the longer the bitter. you should still be happy that your mom is still there. some people lost their whole family on accidents. before christmas i saw a father crying on tv for he lost two of his children from fire accident. and his wife and youngest child has third degree burns. you still lucky you only lost one. now your dad will be with God above and guide you. i will light a candle for your father, may his soul rest in peace.
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@shaie78 (141)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 09
sorry hear about that.. I hope you be patient
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@urbandekay (18278)
3 Jan 09
Sorry to hear such dreadful thing, of course it will sound like nothing but it is true that the pain will grow less with time all the best urban
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• India
3 Jan 09
I have become alone thanks for ur response and but why god only take a good person and leave bad person.
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@urbandekay (18278)
3 Jan 09
God's ways are not our ways, he is, as he says, mysterious all the best urban
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
God is taking those good persons earlier or ahead of the bad persons because their purpose on earth has finished and God does not want them to suffer anymore or their minds be corrupted. The bad persons are left because God is giving them the chance to repent for their sins and to become good. That is how good and great God is that He allows bad persons to change and give them chances to live with Him in heaven.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
3 Jan 09
Hi, Sorry to hear about your father. It is always hard for the ones left behind. There is a time to be born and a time to leave. God has his reason. We humans cannot understand. Try to see your father as a happy man. He is with God. You will see him back later, when your time comes. In the mean time take care of your Mom and familly. They need you. Take care.
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
3 Jan 09
I wish you all the best. Take care.
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• India
3 Jan 09
Thanks for ur comment and yes truly my family need me.
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• India
3 Jan 09
Thanks for ur comment and yes truly my family need me.
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4 Jan 09
I am sorry you have lost your father. However, you feel the need to come on the internet to let everyone know on the same day? I find that very disrespectful to your father.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
4 Jan 09
Could you not have kept that to yourself? You felt the need to hurt someone who is grieving and may not react as you do? This child is only 17, he has grown up in the age of computers and may not have anyone else close besides his family to reach out to. Shame on you for compounding the grief of someone who has suffered such a devastating loss. You have just shamed your own parents in the way that they have brought you up and shown the world that they did not teach you to be kind.
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Sorry about your lost khan, I understand your sentiments, the pain and the sadness. My father passed away when I was 17, I was very much furious to the people who did it for my father. I was a papa's girl, I am only one child. I can say that he is the best father in the whole world Khan, but we can't control the way people think, we can't control the situation, nor the God plans for us.... It was the deepest hurt I ever had, the saddest things for me. But I prayed a lot, yes I asked God why He allowed this things to happen,I tried to understand, I tried to accept things even if I was devastated... But Khan never in my entire life that I hated God.... Please keep your faith, keep on praying and things will get better in time....
• India
9 Jan 09
I will pray for ur father to god and I will keep faith in god too. Thanks for ur support.
• Fiji
4 Jan 09
inalillahi wainalillahi rajiun may allah subhanowatallah grant him janaatul firdaus and sabre jamillah to you and your family.
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Hi there! I am really sorry to hear about what happened. I know I won't be able to say anything to ease the pain so I will be saying a prayer for you and your family instead, and also for your father. I hope that you will find the strength to move on and be there for each other during this time of loss.
• India
9 Jan 09
Thanks for ur support ur prayer are openly welcome. It is nice to see people like u.
@suruchi86 (1873)
• India
30 May 09
I'm so sorry for coming in so late. I'm very-very sorry to know this. May God rest the departed soul in peace. I can feel your pain, few years back I lost my younger brother and his face has become alive in front of me after reading your post. I also cried a lot, albeit silently and still cry, whenever I remember him. May God help you and your family to bear this greatest loss.
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 09
sorry to hear that, Yes this is hard , but try to be strong , this is life , come and gone is a mystery from God
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• India
3 Jan 09
Thanks for ur response from the early morning I tries to be strong and not to cry and see me I am not crying while discussing.
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• United States
4 Jan 09
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know it is a difficult thing. I too have lost my father, back on December 18th, 1997. A friend told me at the time that her father passed away in 1974. She said the pain never goes away but as each day goes back it gets a little easier to deal with. I still have my mother and she will be 84 year old on January 24th. I pray that you find the strength to get through this terrible thing that has happnened. May God be with you.
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@dhaarvi (147)
• India
19 Jan 09
Don't worry, Parents loss can't be easily to forget. It's an Deeper pain/love will exists forever. Everyone has an endm that can't be stopped. I can say try to divert ur feelings somewhere.
@eshwarik (180)
• United States
4 Jan 09
I am sorry to hear that, our condolence to your family.
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@yhtan74 (97)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 09
Sorry to hear that. My condolences to you and your family. Time will heal all wound. Hang on there.
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• India
6 Jan 09
abdul dont get disharted my friend . i really feel very sad for u . i knowthat i cant understand ur condition now but let me tell u my dear friend i will be always there whe ever u need e and this is not sympathy my dear friend .
• New Zealand
14 Jan 09
Hi khan2abdul. Sorry to hear of Your Loss. I am grieving for the loss of Dad but it's at a bit more a later stage for My Family and I. I know that I was and pretty much still am angry with god too. I don't know why he's taken yours or my Dad except that it must have been their time to go back to him, I know that sounds like it's not fair and I do agree with that but I guess we have to just accept that the time was there and it was their time to go. I am unsure why your tears have dried, I am in that same situation most of the time, I have just been on holiday and I managed to be able to let some of the sadness out cos I was miles away from where Dad is and it helped but other than that the holiday really was not worth a lot to me this time cos it is soooo close to where Dad has gone. I hope i have helped a bit too. I am sorry if I have hindered your grieving in any way also. Good luck and may God bless You and All of the other Loved Ones You have Left. Catch ya later pretty_babe
@gtdonna (1738)
12 Jan 09
So sorry for your loss I said a prayer for you today And know God must have heard. I felt the answer in my heart Although He spoke no word! I didn't ask for wealth or fame (I knew you wouldn't mind). I asked him to send treasures Of a far more lasting kind! I asked that He be near you At the start of each new day; To grant you health and blessings And friends to share your way! I asked for happiness for you In all things great and small. But it was for His loving care I prayed the most of all!
@patms1 (521)
• United States
6 Jan 09
Dear Khan2abdul, Please except my condolences. I know how hard it is to lose a parent. I understand that you are angry at God but you have to understand that maybe this is Gods way of giving your father peace. Even the most loved person in the world some times need peace. You must be strong for your mother. I understand that but you must allow yourself to grieve also. Again please except my condolences. My prayers are with you.
@nini89 (670)
• India
8 Jan 09
Oh so sorry for the news that your dad had left for the heavenly aboard. The new year had gone so baad. Be cool that once we alive we can enjoy the life all have to go one day. relax may god bless to look forward and keep sailing the normal day in future. Happy posting and have a good mood.
@shehzu (43)
• Mauritius
6 Jan 09
:( sorry to hear such thing... it really hurts a lot... take care, be courageous...