To whom will you prefer to marry: to the one you love or the one who is rich??

love or money - love , money, marriage
India
January 5, 2009 12:19am CST
Well, i would prefer marrying the one whom i love but i would certainly see if he is financially strong or not? but i have seen girls who prefer marrying a guy who is rich, they think love would happen after marriage. I can never think of doing this.What you guys think??
9 responses
@zackyo7 (301)
• United States
6 Jan 09
Definitely the one I love. I mean how much happiness can money really bring and I'm not talking about material things, I'm talking about the feeling of happiness itself. For me true love is much better than bought love. There are tons of lonely rich folks who party and stuff but they still wish for someone to share their life with.
• India
6 Jan 09
aaww..thats is really sweet and actually true. We always wish for someone whom we really love and can share anything. Happy mylotting..!!
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
5 Jan 09
Well I prefer to marry who I love, don't matter his bank account, we can work together and try to be rich :) However I see lot of young girls who marrymuch older men and for me the only reason in money. I don't imagine marrying a man who is 30 years older than me, there is too much difference.
• India
5 Jan 09
you right that really sounds funny..:-))
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
I would choose someone I love than a rich man because I believe more that there can be rich through hardwork. Love may be developed if I would choose a rich man, but can money buy my happiness? I do not think so. Money can only buy tangible things, but I know that it would be worthless when you are not happy with it. Whereas, choosing or marrying someone you love, there is happiness which no material thing can be compared of. When there is love, you both do everything to succeed for the family. Of course, I would never love someone who is idle. Most strong and rich families I know are from rags to riches, those were made by love and hardwork.
• India
5 Jan 09
i agree.. HAppy Mylotting!!
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
When I was 18, I was determined to marry a guy who is rich and then love will come after marriage. Thinking loving a person would be easy specially if "husband" is a good person, unfortunately I was being too much of a positive thinker. I was living in the wold of fairy tales. Meets my prince who is wealthy and kind.. live happily.. Not thinking of different possibilities, positive and negative side of a person, I just came up with that decision. Nobody's perfect as they say.. your rich but there's something that lacks in you. you're not rich but you have the heart that pleases everyone... Im 24 and I definitely would marry a guy who is not rich because I know money can be earned with hardwork...
• India
5 Jan 09
you are absolutely correct.. Goodluck..!!
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
Material Girl - Common.
I have seen a lot of ladies who would marry for money too but i guess that's normal nowadays. It just doesn't surprise me anymore. I for one, would never marry someone because of her money. That's the reason i'm single now because i'm still waiting for that someone i love most.
• India
5 Jan 09
goodluck..!! may you find her soon..:-))
@sidish_4 (20)
• India
5 Jan 09
I dont agree......c a person who loves u will take good care of u n will try to fulfill all your dreams but nt the guy whom u have married becoz of money or anything.................love is the gift of god whom we have to find on our own.............the people who find their love r very lucky n gifted coz evry person do nt get love.........u will understand one day........
• India
6 Jan 09
hey, i understand. I have found the one whom i really love and i will prefer marrying him only..:-))
@mjoy07 (202)
• Philippines
5 Jan 09
i should go for the i love, because when you choose the one you love for sure you will be happy for your entire life. i believe that you can achieve what you really want if you're dreaming together. money is just money, but love is about everything.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
I agree when I was young I thought I marry into money the joke was on me at the end I got beaten up and slap around so if you think about marry because of money fore get it If you go steady for about 4yrs and then engage 2yrs then make sure of the one you want plus make sure you love him and he feels the same!!!! cd
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
i think i prefer to marry someone whom i love. you can find ways to earn for your living with the one you love.