how can one truly enjoy life, truly be happy???

I think one can truly be happy if one learns to be content with whatever one has and stop searching for things which one feels might be able to make one happier. In the end, it all depends on the person himself. If he is never satisfied, there will never be happiness. Dreams will forever be dreams and never achieved. He will just running around in circle because he does not know how to stop and enjoy the little things in life. Because at the end of the day, the happiness that most people are looking for, is all around us in tiny bits. It's just that we can't see them.

I believe humility is the best start, take a deep breath, see your life in some perpective in relation to the world, the entire universe or even your local community. Count your blessings (no matter how basic food, shelter, good health etc) may look like). Then just enjoy God's provision and be happy with the little things, the big things will not be a stress anymore...