Under which situation, circumstances, or..will you justify cheating on your mate

@davido (1623)
Canada
January 5, 2009 1:49pm CST
Hi I will like to know : Under which situation or circustances will you justify ceating on your mate is inevitable? To those who have been there pls share, those who are hlier than thou you can share as well the more we are the merrier we are!
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4 responses
• United States
6 Jan 09
Well cheating is inevitable because no one is perfect.If I wasn't being satisfied by my man for a while and he refused to please me or only pleased himself, then I would say to hell with that and get a taste of a man that was hungry for my love box.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
7 Jan 09
Hey,hey,gettingg too hot to handle. Its like that when he or she is not appreciating what they've got not until when someone else start milking their cow. Stay cool
@Mocha09 (71)
• United States
5 Jan 09
Well to be honest, we control our actions and we know that it's wrong. I'm not a saint, I have cheated in the past and I must admit it wasn't a good reason. We are faced with being strongly attracted to someone else, and that persons personality could be so nice and different from your mates that sometimes you can't help cheating.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
6 Jan 09
Thats number one reason being strongly attached outside our mate. Due to what we call 'Strong Personality' okay lets keep rolling.
@mlw32785 (133)
• United States
5 Jan 09
well to be honest. i really don't think there is a circumstance where it is okay to cheat. if you are feeling that way. you really need to talk with your mate before it hits that point. i know it happens sometimes. but in the long run things just get very messy and unpleasant at the end. no one walks out untouched. but it doesn't make you a bad person but life isn't the same afterwards.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
6 Jan 09
Yes it happens some times, can you kindly state a situation and lets see from that point of view pls. It affects and touches everyone.
• Canada
19 Feb 09
the ONLY time I can ever see cheating being justified, is if your mate cheated on you first, and you are cheating in return as a way to get back at them for what they did. That happened to me once before, a bf of mine had cheated, and admitted it to me, so instead of breaking up with him or getting mad, I just went and cheated too, and told him about it, and then said to him "now we're even" and from that day he never cheated on me again.