Having A Fight With Mother
By klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
Indonesia
January 5, 2009 6:05pm CST
I know that maybe some people has asked you this question but I am now having a bad time because of this. I had a fight with my mother and I don't know how to resolve this.
The problem is because of the fight, she stopped sending me money. Which for me is not a problem at all. Since I am not being financially supported since last month, means I have not talked with her since the last month.
I know that the new year is the good moment to start a peace, but we lost the moment and I don't want her to think that I contacted her just because of the money. To be honest, yes I need the money, but I don't need it from her. i could get it from anywhere and I have some saving in my paypal, which I could just withdraw anytime.
*sigh*
3 responses
@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
Were kinda the same, me and my mom had a fight at new year's eve. Way to start the new year. But hey, just talk to her, she's your mom so whatever you do she will definitely forgive you. Hope things turn out okay with you and her. Good luck! 
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@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
I know how you feel! Like my mom...sometimes its her fault but she won't admit it...she'll find a way to turn things around. Which totally sucks. And sometimes, its like they don't understand..you know. Like when you do that, they hate it, but when they do that to you...you shouldn't argue. *sighs*
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 09
Hey, thanks donsky. I know that it is not so easy to handle the new year not talking to your mother. Yes, I was thinking of saying sorry as well, but it wasn't my fault and I don't think it would be fair to let her dominate my life like this. I never fought back before but at the moment i thought she has moved too far.
@siauwming022 (208)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 09
Hello klaudine, 1st U must ask to u'r self...r'U really not need U'r mother?
I mean not only her money. If the answer no 2nd U must talk with her & explain to her how much U need her & explain if U need her for her support in U'r live. If U have money with u'r own job, fee, etc try don't take her money until U really need.
Hope U & U'r Mom be on good asap.....
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 09
I don't say that I don't need my mother, but I don't need the money from her. I need the money and I need her, but I don't need her giving me the money. I don't want her to think that I only need her money and she thought that I am so much dependent on her in the financial support. I don't want to let her think that she could interfere my personal life just because she pays for my living
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
6 Jan 09
The thing I would suggest then is that you call her and tell you her that you simply called because you want to apologize for the fighting, (even if the fight were not your fault)because you really want to be on good terms with her
Life is too short to spend it fighting with family members.
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