ive had a friend, a bestfriend.. with a soon to be enemy.

January 5, 2009 11:31pm CST
its not bad to hate an enemy, its as good as how you love them. my question was that can you be friend with them again though you know how much back-stabber she really is? or you would just snob her and let her know how much you dont want to be her friend? in other words. would you come up to her frankly or plastic-ly?
3 responses
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
6 Jan 09
i know what you mean. it's quite sad that from friends we became best friends.. and then things happen and we became enemies. Well, if she is a back-stabber honestly, i won't waste time with such people. Why subject myself to get hurt. As they say once bitten twice shy. I choose to be frank about what i feel. Because being plasticky is very tiring & knowing that the other person is a back-stabber and it's quite obvious that she is prone to back-stab you, i won't even waste my time and effort to act in front of her. As a matter of fact, i'd run the other direction when it comes to her.
@melvill (392)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
I agree with you. I dont waste my time mending with such plastic people. Im a frank person and i dont want such that kind of person
@moouui (1)
• Indonesia
7 Jan 09
As a good friend, we certainly can't upon others. I will make no bones about the lack of any discomfort and we are on it. Of course with the right word choice, so he isn't a shoulder, and can understand. It might be said honestly, who known he can also improve his ugliness
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
if you think it will make you happy and have a peace of mind, better yet not mend what was broken. just be civil with her and keep a distance.