What is the one thing about yourself that you would like to change?
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
India
January 6, 2009 6:00am CST
If you had an opportunity to change one thing about yourself, what would you change and why?
Now people, i dont want to hear stuff like - My life is perfect and i wouldnt want to change a single thing about myself. Anyone who says so is lying. Nobody in this world is happy with themselves.. Everyone wants to change something or the other about themselves. What would you want to change??
If you ask me, I would like to change my habit of trusting people blindly. I am always of the opinion that people are generally good in nature and this habit of mine has gotten me in trouble plenty of times. I think "People are turstworthy until proven otherwise" instead of "People should not be trusted until they have been proven to be trustworthy".
So wat would you wanna change about yourself??
5 responses
@piesmeralda (388)
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
We have the same problem.
I tend to trust people immediately with what they say. I always think about "maybe, he's like this, maybe she's doing this, maybe they're at it." but it's always me who tells myself "maybe not". And I always end up the victim, that they're really are at it.
I think, I should trust my first instinct and never give my trust people, who broke it once, again. I always give chances to people who hurt me, but then I always get hurt again. I sometimes say that I hate myself for trusting them.
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
9 Jan 09
yeah i understand your predicament. Well good luck in sorting your trust issues.. :)
@sophia1984 (278)
• China
6 Jan 09
Most of the time, I am lack of confidence, if I have the chance, I will be more confidence.
In my daily life, no matter when I was a student or now I am working in the company, sometimes I konw I can do the thing, but for lack of confidence, I miss many chances, too sad. :(
Be more confidence, I must be more confidence. :)
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@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
7 Jan 09
hey sophia, i hope you get your confidence level quite high..\
Enjoy.. :)
@blademaiden (734)
• Romania
8 Mar 09
Procrastination. By far. I'm a lot better lately, but I would definitely wish to be a little more motivated to do things I normally don't want to, like clean my room, or do a paper on something I don't like. I think I'm pretty good with everthing else right now.
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
18 Mar 09
yeah... even i have the same problem.. thanks for relplying!!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
13 Mar 09
i would like to change of being me about my big mouth
i esily to get mad and this case its a very bad i even observed it and yes i try to change it
i esily to get mad and this case its a very bad i even observed it and yes i try to change it
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
22 Feb 09
What I'd change about myself would be to stop being a worrywort! I have this problem of worring about stuff I shouldn't be worring about and not worring about things I should be! It drives me crazy and I wish I could stop! I get so angry at myself when this happens! I feel like I'm losing it at times like this!
