10 K to adopt a baby ....

Hi there sanjana,long time no post, I am very sorry to hear your plight, but you are still young(38 is not such a old age) and I am certain that if you try, you can have your own baby. there is nothing to beat having your own baby. If you are only interested in adapting a baby, and if you are not able to do it in Malysia, you can always try it in India. I am not mentioning it will be cheap, but $10k seems very high, in India you might be able to get a baby for about $2k, from a reputed orphonage.

[i]Hi sanjana, Ohh..that is very pricey! How about in orphanage, I guess there you need not to pay anything! I heard in the news in our Country that some babies are abducted and sold to any couple who loves to adopt! But, good thing some babies were recover and was returned to the original parents![/i]

I don't know if you have orphanages and a Children's Aid Society in Malaysia but usually those places would be happy and ever so grateful to help arrange to adopt a baby. I know private adoptions in my country are also very expensive but if you go through approved channels it is safer for the child and the adoptive parents. Sometimes a lot of heart ache ensues in private adoptions if the mom changes her mind at a later date. Good luck with your search.

May God Bless you for your kind heart.Adoption is not easy for everyone.One must have the frame of mind to do it.I don't understand why they are demanding money for giving a baby for adoption.I have never heard that before.I agree with you when there are so many children who have been abandoned why can't they give it to people who are willing to give that child a good life with lots of love and care.Everyday when I read those atrocious stories of how children are being abandoned it pains me.There are so many out there longing to have a child.Recently a friend of mine adopted a baby.They had no kids for the past 10 years and they wanted to adopt a girl baby.They had registered with an agency and they got a 3 month old girl baby.I believe the mother has 6 children and this child is the 7th they do not have the means to bring her up.So she had agreed to give it up for adoption.But the real mother and the person who adopted never met.I can't tell you how lucky that child is.She has a loving set of parents who adore her and who are showering so much affection on her.The baby too has changed their lives.I think laws must be changed and adoption should be made easier.At the same time the authorities should be careful so that people do not misuse it.I hope and pray that you find a baby to whom you could be a wonderful mother.God Bless.

Hello my friernd sanjana_aslam Ji, It has been pity on people's part to hide evry of their such acts, which are out-rightly anti-social. Such people are not curegeous to approach genlte people like you. At least they can hand over to some orphanage and such places, where new borns can be taken care-off. I think if you open such gesture in your locality with help of some NGO's support, this evil can be solved uoto certain extent. May God bless you and have a great time.