Question for us Ladies....

@cryw0lf (1302)
United Kingdom
January 7, 2009 8:56pm CST
Did your first time hurt ALOT? Or were you lucky and got away with absolutely no pain what so ever...? Also, were there times you asked him to 'pull out' where it hurt too much? Or did you try a first time but fail, then next time in the mood try again? I'm just curious how many women have this problem.. (Well its not really a problem)... If men know about their ladies, feel free to join in. :)
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6 responses
• United States
8 Jan 09
I was very lucky; my first time didn't hurt at all, nor did I bleed. My boyfriend (who is now my husband), was fairly gentle - both of us were virgins. But in my case, it didn't hurt because I'd broken my hymen when I was ten by falling down on the bar on my bike. It hurt like no tomorrow, and I bled a little. But as a result, I had a fairly enjoyable (or at least painless) first time, so I suppose it was worth it!
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 09
That is lucky i guess :p... I mean, atleast it was probably more pleasurable for you when it did come to your first time. It's hard trying to stay turned on when you're in pain haha!
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
thats good..:)
• Canada
8 Jan 09
It hurt a little, but I was ready and I was older (whichis probably why I way more ready). Neither of us finished the first time. He stopped when I asked him. I bled for 2 days, and then I bled the second time too. But he was sweet and gentle and very good to me. I don't remember an exorbanent amount of pain.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 09
Awh :p sweet. Forgot to ask about bleeding. I dont blame you, most people probably dont finish their first time. And its nice to hear he was good to you.
• United States
11 Jan 09
My first time didn't hurt and I didn't bleed at all, it wasn't a fun experience, cause I didn't really like the guy that much. I don't get the women who say it hurts, but that's just me. In my opinion, if it hurts, you must be doing something wrong. All the times after that, the experience has been good.
• Canada
9 Jan 09
Yes it did hurt a lot because I was scared. It hurts because some of us is very nervous when it is the first time. But, after my 1st time everything is fine. Good luck :D
@britt_200 (1227)
• United States
9 Jan 09
lol i dont know why its always a BAD experience for people...but for me it was REALLY good...idk...maybe i have a good partner..lol he just knew how to make it feel good and make me feel good...and it was an all around good thing.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
8 Jan 09
It wasn't my first time that hurt the most, it was when I didn't have it for several weeks. I don't know what or why it happened, but even though I have had four children at the time, afterwards, I bled and it hurt for several days later. Actually, that was fun for me. Now, it's been nearly a year since I've last had it so come the next time, who knows what it would be like. *Pleiades