...how would you know if the person truly loves you???

@rodeth (87)
Philippines
January 9, 2009 4:55am CST
...There are some people say "I Love You" but deep inside, they don't mean it. they just say I love you to make someone happy without realizing whats the real meaning of it... ...There are also some people who say "I Love You" to someone and letting them feel what there heart bets... ...Doing something that will make a person happy is letting them feel that they are loved, but how would you know if the person is really sincere with his words and actions???
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9 responses
• Canada
11 Jan 09
Well I have known my bf for over a year now. We have been living together since last April. I know I "love" him but we have still not said that to one another. We say it in other ways I guess and it just hasn't been that right moment to say it out right. We are in the process of buying a house together so right there is a way we show each other that we care. But one day that special time will come when he says I love you to me and then I will know for sure.
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hey thanks for your message, well, I will try to observe if someone sincerely meant those words they've spoken... but I know that Actions speaks louder than words...take care always and thank u again
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
11 Jan 09
Hey, Well, I can't really tell whether people tell the truth or not. I am not the type of person who can tell the difference between someone who is telling the truth, or if someone is lying! "Don't judge a book by its cover" Happy myLotting!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...yeah ur right, anayways thanks 4 ur message,,, take care always
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
I really suck at these things. Most of the time, i misunderstood the kind, sweet gestures that a woman is showing to me and usually end up feeling bad,.
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hmmmm i hope you will find someone who really loves you sincerely, anyways thanks 4 us message.take care
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
9 Jan 09
hello rodeth. welcome to mylot. Thank you so much for starting such an interesting question. I believe the true test of relationship is adverse situation. Try painting a fake situation that would put stress in the relationship u want to test & would require real effort from the otherside to sustain & rejuvenate the relationship. If he/she selflessly devotes all the attention towards you, then you can be sure the feelings are true and genuine. have a nice day at mylot.
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hey thanks 4 that wonderful msg, i really appreciate it a lot. you have a brilliant idea about it, have you find your true love???hehe kidding aside, i hope i can find someone who is worthy of my love, as for now,I am searching for it... take care always and thank you so much
@jacobert (24)
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
i think you'll know someone loves you when he brings out the best in you and not just you for what you've done in the past nor judge you for the bad things you've done. you can feel love when when you love.
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
...what a brilliant idea you have,hehehe thanks... take care
• United States
9 Jan 09
how would you know that a person love you. is when a boy or a girl walks in where they live and him or her is so happy that they walk in that door. they run up to them and give them a big black kiss i ever seen. and if you too can talk about almost any thing that means you have the connections and that all you need in a relationship
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hehe right, thanks for that message. take care always
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
9 Jan 09
[i]Hi rodeth, When he is always with you despite of your imperfections. Who is always supportive, loving, caring and who also loves the people whom you love! Who loves to tease with you and who always make sure you're happy even if relationship isn't all about happiness![/i]
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...i really like your msg, thanks... it helps me a lot.thanks. take care
@thukio16 (254)
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
Hi there! I think i would recognize that person if that person really loves me if that person stood still even i do something rude at all, i mean that so sweet if that person really try to shows that i am worth fighting for. Ahhh... Hope this could help and have a nice day!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hey thanks 4 d msg, it really inspire me...take care
@jacobert (24)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
heyah.. there are dofferen way to show love..not just by telling her you love her..in my case i seldom tell my girl that i love her..not because i don't love her but to maintain the magic everytime i tell her i love..i just tell her that magial words like in romantic time or romantic occasion..like b-day o anniversary..tsk tsk..see..coz when you always say the magic word it's kind common or the magic is definitely gone..see, it's more romanticmy way right..but tat's just my point of view..we all look at things in different ways..