Talking turkey

@dawnald (85137)
Shingle Springs, California
January 9, 2009 12:09pm CST
Are you a slangy kind of a person or more formal? Are you really comfortable using the latest and greatest expression, whatever it may be, or do you wait and see if it becomes mainstream first? Anything in your upbringing or nature that might explain this?
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
10 Jan 09
I'm a kindda old fashioned gal when it comes to language, don't know how or why I picked up so many old terms, but I have. For example, what is the past tense for the word "drag"?
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
10 Jan 09
Not according to the Oxford English Dictionary, its an archaic form of the past tense. I may be a lousy at spelling and at grammer, but that's history and that's my bag.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
10 Jan 09
Actually, it does.... http://www.oed.com/ As they say for themselves, its the definitive record of the English Language. You want to know word origins, you will find the complete origin in the OED. (Learned that in my "History of the English Language" course in college.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Jan 09
Very interesting - did not know that. Of course the Oxford English Dictionary has no standing here in the good old U S of A. lol
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@Sissygrl (10909)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
I tend to stick with what i know.. unless i make up the word.. I dont get much information on waht's mainstream.. lol unless you count "that's hot" which i do not say often.. unless i'm touching the pot after its been on the stove boiling..
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@Sissygrl (10909)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
oh dear. lol good luck with that!! I'm sure it will be very confusing and annoying!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 09
I have a daughter who is almost a teenager, so I suspect I'll be getting a whole course on what's mainstream real soon!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 09
and even more so when the twins get to be that age (heaven help me lol)...
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 09
Personally I think the English language is abused enough and torn apart, I hate these new words coming about like kewl and wicked which means great not evil as it should be designated to mean. I avoid slang and I guess I am more of the old school, it does make me cringe when slang is used although that is not as bad as when swear words become every day use. Why do some people feel the need the put swear words in every sentence? Call me old fashioned but it makes me cringe when people drop their 'h's like 'avent you got none, or another word that makes me cringe is 'ain't' A lot of it is down to attitude don't you think?
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Jan 09
Some things strike my fancy. Like I use 'kewl' but not wicked in it's new connotation. Too many swear words make me uncomfortable too. And 'enry 'iggins would agree with you on that last one, but it's not something you see here in the US!
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 09
'urrah for that indeed! There is 'ope then
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Jan 09
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
I use some of it, most of the time it's on purpose to make fun of something rather than it just being part of my vocabulary. But I find if I use something like that too much then it can worm it's way into my daily conversations. There are some that I absolutely hate though, like a lot of the slang rappers use. And I can't bring myself to use bad grammar, no matter how mainstream it gets!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 09
Me either, except occasionally to make a point...
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
9 Jan 09
Oh, this one is tricky to answer. I think that I had a very fromal upbringing - rigid actually with regard to manners, behaviour and especially table manners. We were not allowed to speak slang and our speech was always corrected. My mother insited that we speak with a classless accent. We were not allowed to use the language of our region or use the local dialect of our region. and this is really odd when you think that my mother spoke with an Irsh accent all of her life! Even today, I am the politst person I know. I am not rigid around friends but I can still get a bit stiff when I see children with awful table manners. I just hate this. I suppose it was my upbringing really. My mother wanted us to have a better life than she had and therefore this is why she was so insistant on good manners and speech. On reflection, I can understand it.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Jan 09
My mother was very correct also. She was from the South and deliberately lost the accent and was also very well educated. At the same time, she could just let lose with a barrage of bad grammar in some kind of a funny accent if she wanted to get a laugh!
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
10 Jan 09
My mother only had a standard education - she did not go to college or anything as her parents had emigrated from Ireland to the U.K. because of the fighting in Ireland at that time. she also lost much of her hearing in her teens due to complications from measles. She was fiercely ambitious for her children as she did not want us to be trapped in marriage with no means of escape if we were unhappy. she wanted us to be able to earn enough money to be independent of a man/husband. She was born in 1912 so definitely a lady before her time.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Jan 09
Sounds kind of like the great-aunt who raised my mom...
• United States
9 Jan 09
I enjoy using big words and using them properly, I think It might be because I enjoy confusing people :) Apparently I had a great Grandfather who could do this as well, but he had an extra ability to go with it, one that I hope to someday achieve for myself. He had the ability, to downplay his speaking ability, and speak on the same level as people who didn't quite have the vocabulary he did, and he was also able to speak on his higher level for people who understood it.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Jan 09
no 'eschew obfuscation' eh?