What would the bride fell if you were invited and you didnt show up?

@winieann (234)
Philippines
January 10, 2009 12:46am CST
My mom was invited to my Aunt's wedding ceremony she is the bride, the bride was one of the family's closest friend. My mom insisted me to come and i don't want to go. If you were the bride what would you feel?
1 response
@echomonster (2227)
• Greenwood, Mississippi
14 Jan 09
I think the main question here is how many people will be invited to the wedding. If there will be a lot of people there and you don't have a personal relationship with the bride or groom, I rather doubt the bride will even notice. I can't tell from what you wrote if the bride is your aunt or just a family friend. In either case, I wouldn't think you would need to go really, but especially not if the bride isn't a relation. Unless you REALLY enjoy weddings, I think life is too short to attend random people's nuptials; if you go to this one, who knows how many your aunt will be expecting you to attend in the future? You might be able to assuage any ill feelings that might arise if you get a little wedding gift for your aunt to take.
@winieann (234)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
Thank you for the sweet response. I did not attend tho but i did call and gave her my congratulations. Yeah there were lots of guest. I missed out the food tho. hahha