In love

United States
January 11, 2009 7:49am CST
Can a person that falls in love easily ever really be in love? Can your heart still be very much in love with another while falling in love again? I think that some people have hearts that were made to fall in love. They have the capacity to give their all to more than one and TRULY love each of them. To whisper to one that they love them with their heart and soul and mean exactly what they say, while loving another. There are hearts such as this and they are real. Are they something wonderful and to be called "A gift?" I think that they are beautiful and that this heart spends it's entire lifetime falling in love but never falling out of love. loving another in a special way. The romantic that loves to walk along the beach while the moon lights the water and shows the waves as they touch the shore. The heart that walks through the forest until the perfect spot is found, next to a brook that gurgles softly, where a blanket is laid out and a picnic is shared... shared with someone before and shared now with another. A heart that believes that every day is Valentines day and that it should be shared with as many loves as need to feel that love. To feel they are special and beautiful and loved deeply. The heart must have been given to them for reason. Why would their heart be so huge and love so deeply, so many, if not meant to be? A walk through a gentle rain or rustling leaves that whirl around your ankles in the softness of Autumn. These things should not belong to only two. A romantic is always in love and always sees into the hearts of the lonely. and... he/she believes no one should ever not be in love nor should they ever not feel that someone is in love with them...
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• United States
11 Jan 09
I think in order to love you must know how to respect others. Respect is love and if you can not respect yourself and others it is not love but indeed infatuation. Because when you really know how to love you can fall in love easy. because you understand love from lust. People with low self esteem think they are in love and the "fall in love" quick. But it is not really love or a healthy relationship. People who relly know respect and are capable of love do not smother you and have trust issues. Love should never be forced and if you respect people the person you fall in love so quickly with will fall in love with you quickly..why because respect. So persons should try respect you will see how easy it is to love other people once you know respect.
• United States
14 Jan 09
yeah i do believe that too.. i think that they have to be careful and surround themselves with people that will understand that or else they tend to get hurt because the people that believe you only fall in love once and with one person become so judgmental and try to break the person of their loving spirit..
• United States
14 Jan 09
how could i think bad of you when we think alike?? lol.. glad to see you back on here!!
• United States
14 Jan 09
it is alwayssssssssss wonderful to see you and I think we do have the same mind in many ways smiles softly
• United States
14 Jan 09
Once again, let me huggggggggggg you tight for seeing and knowing. Perhaps my dear friend, it is simply a different world that you and I live in. we both can summarize the reasons with out help. To say it is "wrong" can only serve to break down the loving heart that is ours. Understanding goes a very long way. Thank you so much for seeing and not thinking me a bad man... Always, Darrel
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I don't believe a person actually falls in love that easily. They may possibly believe they are in love or they feel for someone but they don't really love each person they get attached to. I am a kind hearted person and feel for others who are suffering. I think some people may actually mistake this for love. I believe the feelings of sympathy may be seen as feelings of love. I hope this isn't too confusing. It is a little difficult to explain. When I was a kid I always heard people speak of "puppy love". Maybe it is something like that or perhaps it is infatuation but not really true love. But when true love does come along I am certain they will know.
• United States
12 Jan 09
As you will read if you scroll back, I agree with your words. the empathic heart falls because their caring is so deep that it often mimics In Love. Nothing you said was confusing in any way and I thank you very much for reading and responding so wonderfully. I was blessed for 25 years with exactly the True Love you speak of. Thank you again and hugs to you. Always, Darrel
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 09
Can a person that falls in love easily ever really be in love? I think in your case, your artistic mind and maybe romantic nature put you on the disadvantage side of falling prey to the meaning of love. It might only be an infatuation. As men are normally weakened by the physical looks of women and found the excitement of falling in love only to end up frustrated. But what really draws a man to a woman and be attracted to her or falling head over heals in love with her can only be answered by himself. Love is the key to happiness. All human beings have the potential to give and receive love. We are potentially storehouses of love. Love is a priceless gift to bestow on to another. Through love, we can provide the warmth to satisfy the burning desires of an individual to be loved, for those who love and are loved in return are happier than those devoid of love. That is to say the more love you give the more will you receive in return. Love is the most precious thing in the world. No matter how unhappy you are now or have been in the past, you can still find happiness in future. The key to happiness no doubt is love, and you are in possession of that precious key right now and always. Telling another person 'I love you' can be a risky business sometimes, but the rewards can be substantial. Love is a beautiful word coined to express the inner feelings but only with the right chemistry that exist between two individuals make it more meaningful to commit in our life. Stay cheerful always.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 09
You say it all and you have what it takes to be a loving person. Bless you!
• United States
6 Mar 09
Love grows very often where it is feed. You are so wonderful to write here and your words are always soul filling. Hugssssssssss you Always, XX Darrel
• United States
12 Jan 09
your words are as always beautiful and meaningful... I look forward to seeing you in my writes. there is more story behind my easily falling in love but i do not care to share it with the world at this time. When you say we are "potentially storehouses of love" I look at that and say "She got it! She understands that our hearts are filled with love and sometimes there are those of us that have an over-abundance of love that causes us to reach out more than others, indeed more than we are allowed or supposed to." When I do say "I love you" I mean that I Do love you and love comes in every shape and size because "one size does NOT fit all." smilessssssss Thank you for your words and thank you for always being so wonderful to comment. I almost pulled this discussion. thank you. X
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Hello Dday, Welcome to Mylot. You have an amazing way of trying to make infidelity seem like a beautiful thing. Don't get me wrong, the way you phrase it, probably makes others feel like having more than one love. But the bottom line is, it appears that you don't want to commit to just one person. It seems unfair to the first woman that you profess your love to that you are so willing to set her aside so that you can go out and experience that initial romantic feeling again. Love isn't a lifetime of romance. It's a lifetime of sharing all the good things and bad things. It's learning together sometimes the hard way, how to really Love one another. We learn to accept each others little qirks and be patient when they are having a bad day. Taking care of your loved one when they are ill. Supporting each other during the most difficult times of your lives. And still loving each other through all that and more. That my friend is True Love. Romance is just the beginning, the exciting part, that fades slowly away into reality. leenie
• United States
12 Jan 09
hello leenie, i am afraid that the Way this was written some people have marked me as a not so good man. read about me one day in my personal blog before passing to harsh of judgement. I had a beautiful lady, my love forever with me for 25 years. She became very ill 1 year after we were married and the rest of our life and love for 24 years was spent in hospitals, raising 2 children, sitting at her side for 60 and 32 day coma's, 136 hospital stays and 15 times being told she would not live through the night. She was my darling and my forever love and in March of 2006 she went to heaven to be with God. the strongest, most beautiful woman and we spent those years loving, never ever once raising our voices in anger to each other and watching our two daughters grow into adulthood. giving my love to any other was not even an option. I am an empath and so i feel the pain and sorrow and smiles and excitement of those around me. My heart is giving and yes, i can love more than one. I never meant to make it something "right" i was simply showing how some hearts are. To open myself and my heart to more than one because there is more than one to open it too is a way of life for me. It does not make it right or wrong, simply me. but please know that I Do know the meaning of commitment and I Do know how to stand beside and love with all of my heart a lady who knew more pain and more suffering but walked through the fires hand in hand with me and neverever did she know the word Quit. 3 years after she went to heaven and i am still loving her each and every day and cry for her because i miss her voice andf touch. Thank you so very much for writing and reading as it is always good to hear ones heart speak. Always, darrel
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Hi Darrel, Sorry if I misspelled your name. My short term memory isn't all that great.I'm really sorry to hear about your wifes dreadful illness. I also am sorry to hear about your experience with the one you loved. What a long time for you to have to watch each other suffer through an illness that must have been very painful. I too had to watch my second husband suffer with a Parkinson like disease for five years before he passed on. For me, it was the most heart breaking experience of my life. For me it was so difficult to watch him suffer. I would have done anything to make his last years, months, days and moments the happiest possible. Even today I wish I could have done more. So. tell me, was that a piece of your writing or a true description of your deepest or not so deep feelings? I found it beautifully written. Then I went to your profile to find that you are a writer. Are you a newly published writer? or have I just missed your name and books on the book lists. I'm a very curious person. I hope you don't mind telling me more about yourself. Waiting to hear. leenie
• United States
12 Jan 09
Thank you for writing more. I am sad that you suffereed so with your husband and his illness. i must say that never in 24 years did i feel that i was anything but totally blessed by Sheila. There were some hard times watching her suffer, knowing I could at times do little to help her pain, but there were never Bad times. Our life was one of love and adventure and finding the best ways to live life to it's fullest no matter what life tossed at us. I have been published for about 4 years now and am working on my 3rd and 4th novels to be printed. I am writing in 5 and 6 as we speak. my novels are available through barnes and noble and amazon on and offline and also through powells and borders and many other bookstores. They can also be ordered directly from me and that way you not only get a signed copy but a free CD I have out of 13 of the 50 songs i have written and recorded. Thank you very much for asking and never feel bad for that. I am as it shows, an open book. have a great day and always smile... Darrel
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Darell, I would love to order your books. Right now is a bad time for us, so as soon as our financial situation is resolved, you can bet on me ordering. It'd kind of nice to have a Novelist here to talk to. My husband has been out of work for a year and a half and I'm disabled so our only income is my SSDI. As soon as that changes, I will mostcertainly check your work out. leenie
• United States
12 Jan 09
I fully understand you situation. The books will be right here whenever you find you wish to purchase them. I thank you from my heart for your interest. I will send prayers up to heaven that things settle in your life nd that God blesses your family with jobs. Thank you so much for writing and have a wonderful day.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
12 Jan 09
I long to be in love! Love is believed to be the most beautiful emotion in the world. And its strange that everyone has his own special partner.I just dont know how to find him out.Where is my prince white? Thats the hardest question because only God knows the answer.
• United States
12 Jan 09
I hope you find what you are longing for. patience and an open heart will allow it to be. And yes, God does know. Thank you for writing. I wish only the best for you. Darrel
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
Love is something that is not in our hands. Love is astrange phenomenon. It is impossible even to describe it.It is beyond words. Some people do not love others because they are depressed in life. One can alove only if one is happy. Happiness is a must in order to love.
• United States
12 Jan 09
you are very right. love isnt something that we always have the say in. Sometimes, unexplainably, it just finds us and when it does, there are no words to describe it. Thank you for writing. Darrel