Normal Couple Weds in Taco Bell (Yes - Normal - Normal, Illinois, that is)

@jerzgirl (9384)
United States
January 11, 2009 2:10pm CST
First of all, before anyone tells me that they didn't report me "this time" as happened another time, I DID do a search and this was the response I got: We couldn't find any discussions about taco bell wedding. I actually had someone criticize me for starting a discussion about a topic someone else had already discussed. Well, I have NEVER had the search option locate any current discussions - only those over a year old. And, as you can see, it said there were none found. Now that the subject of my possibly repeating a subject already discussed has been resolved, I want to say that I'm all for cheap, easy weddings. Although I seriously doubt I'll ever re-marry, I would rather be married in a quicky Las Vegas chapel or before a JP than ever have a big wedding. My small, personal, intimate wedding was the best thing about my marriage. Why in God's name anyone would want to spend $20,000 on a wedding and then thousands more on a honeymoon BEFORE starting a life together is beyond me. That's just absolute madness. What a down payment that would be on a house (assuming they don't already have one) or a paydown on other debts. However - although I can appreciate some quirky style weddings, I'm not sure Taco Bell is one that I could appreciate as much. And, the guy who married them was ordained online??? Haven't many of these ordinations been proven bogus?? Or is that only if they try for tax-exempt status? What if this proves to be not legal? And, what about people who thought Taco Bell was open? Did they put out a sign saying they were closed? Or what? (I'm full of questions today, aren't I?) Here's the link to the story: http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/1372375,w-taco-bell-normal-wedding-011109.article What do you think? Was this cool or was this just too strange? Or maybe a little of both? If you could do it again (or had a choice), would you go full-blown traditional, low-key traditional or a little quirky and unique? Or are you a diehard "do what no one else has done" type of person?
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
12 Jan 09
Did Taco Bell cater? What's wrong with MacDonald's and getting hitched under golden arches? How about Pizza Wedding Hut? I mean seriously, it sounds like these people had more money than brains....... no scratch that, the bell ringing probably addled their brains! lol I'm sorry, but this just reinforces my belief that society no longer holds anything sacred or worth of proper respect anymore.*sigh* My own wedding was small, intimate, beautiful and special. I wouldn't even consider having a wedding like the one you describe here. If this is modern day romance...........you can keep it!
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Uh..well let me see I know we can say thousands go to these places like court houses and places such in Las Vegas to get a "speedy" wedding...so if they can do at these type of places (not saying that I would personally) than why not at a fast food restaurant? Not saying I would personally...but it's a personal choice. Pablo
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
12 Jan 09
Hey jerz.......a $14 wedding dress in a place where the food is less than four bucks a plate seems like a lot for a dress! LOL I shouldn't talk though, my dress was free and the food was over $100.00 a plate! ROFL
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@jerzgirl (9384)
• United States
12 Jan 09
You must be having a good day, Sparks. Your 'feist' is showing. If they got married in Taco Bell with a $14 wedding dress, it isn't more money than brains. It's just plain weird. What's weirder is that after starting this discussion I got an email from a friend who is in Las Vegas right now and will be married at 9AM our time (EST) and those of us not there can watch the ceremony live online. How cool is that????
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
12 Jan 09
While I don't think I would want to do that in a wedding. I think that they chose a unique idea! Hey they only spent 200 USD, they got an intimate wedding & it was very informal for them. It's kind of funny that they did it in "Normal" IL, hahaha I would like to do something unique but not too expensive & something that was intimate. Cheers! Pablo
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Oh I see...well it WAS a very cheap wedding but aren't the speedy weddings cheap too? You pay around a couple hundred USD & then it's done, am I right? So I don't see if people think that's "right" then why they think the fast food restaurant is "wrong.". I don't think I could do either of them...you can have a small wedding without having to elope or to get married at a fast food restaurant. Pablo
@jerzgirl (9384)
• United States
12 Jan 09
To be quiet, huh? Pues, como te vas, Pablo? My dad used to call my son Pablo - his name is Paul. A little unique is OK, but I'm sorry, but Taco Bell is NOT quite "intimate" enough for me. I'd take a Vegas wedding chapel over Taco Bell, no matter how much I like their cheesy double beef burrito! In fact, I have a friend getting married right now in a Vegas chapel that has a live video feed, except it's not compatible with Ubuntu or I'd be watching it. HECK! I'll have to check it out later in the still shots. But, that's pretty neat, I think. I wouldn't mind being married out there. Small, intimate, relatively inexpensive, and no mass quantities of people there. I'm just not a fan of crowds. (I mean in the chapel - of course they'd all be in the casinos.)
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@blackbriar (9075)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I heard about several couples getting married at Taco Bell. Nothing new to me at all. lol As for me, we got married in the courthouse. Plain and simple and very cheap. I'm with you, why go all out on a huge wedding when you could take all that money and buy a nice house or pay off all/most of your debt.
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@jerzgirl (9384)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I'd love to be in Vegas with someone I very much cared about (having known them a while - not a drunken one night "meeting") and suddenly decide to get married there and then. I think that would be really neat. So many different themes to choose from.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Welllllll, I have to say that a big expensive wedding isn't quite what I would want to do either, but my guess is that so long as they had the legal peice of paper from the state/county and the guy was willing to sign it, then whatever.... Mind you, Taco Bell would be one of my very LAST choices, but then again, I AM allergic to CORN!
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@jerzgirl (9384)
• United States
11 Jan 09
LOL True that. So, then you'd just take the flour tortillas with beans and meat (if there is no cornstarch or syrup in any of it, right?) I do like their cheesy double beef burritos, I do have to say. I didn't like the changes they made to the meat, but that one is pretty darned good, I think. Not that it has anything to do with getting married there.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Well, a lot of flour tortillas have baking powder in them and a lot of baking powder had corn starch. I used to get their beans until I discovered they cooked them with bacon... no bacon for this gal!
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Well.... as a person who has had a traditional wedding and then a not-so-traditional wedding, I don't think anything people choose to do any more is of any concern. I don't think I'd want to get married at Taco Bell, but I would figure if a place wanted to give me free food or something, I'd likely take them up on it lol. As far as the criticism from people about multiple discussions on the same subject - I myself will do a SEARCH first and if it returns nothing, then I go ahead with my discussion. There's something about the search which is BROKEN because usually AFTER I have made my discussion, then I see others in the 'related' column! So... for anybody who gripes about multiple discussions about the same subject, take a chill pill. The reason it happens is because the searches return nothing until after someone makes another discussion. I don't know why but it has happened to me at LEAST five times! If mylot doesn't like it, they need to fix their search results engine. If there are other discussions about 'taco bell wedding', the initial search should have returned those other discussions! It's not your fault it didn't. I'm not quite sure why people want to spend so much on weddings. Now if I COULD, like if money were no object, perhaps I would. I think I would be more likely to be picky about some things, like my catering or maybe a place where everyone invited had dinner, or I'd be able to fly people here and put them up at a nice hotel or bed and breakfast or something, stuff like that. I still don't think it would cost 20K but that's because I'd still try to get the best deal on everything. As far as where the minister obtained his license to marry people, who really cares? It's true that almost anybody can get something like that online, and if you want to get married quickly, that's probably the best way to do it. I am one of those people who if I could, I would learn how to do everything and get certification to do everything so then I could just do everything myself and not have to count on other people. Other people do nothing but irritate me, slow me down, take their sweet time, refuse to do their job (to my satisfaction or within a reasonable amount of time) and if I could do everything myself, it would be loads cheaper not to mention a whole lot less stressful. My second wedding was excellent. Hubby and I went and did it while our older kids were on spring break visiting other family, so we just had our 14 month old. We went to get our license and got married at a library in town - it was cheap, took about 15 minutes, and we had one friend attend as our witness. We took pictures, didn't have a chance to get nervous, didn't have to order clothing, cater food, plan anything, or pay for a chapel, reception, etc. We were able to just relax, hang out, and then go ring shopping the next day and have a few nice dinners out and some entertainment. No matter how you slice it, when I think about my wedding, it's supposed to be for us. We don't need to go about impressing anybody. I just want to have a good time, know what I mean?
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Hey jerz! Well, after reading the strange article about this couple I say why not? They seem to be weird in every other way so why not marry at Taco Bell? Personally, no thanks! I barely like to eat there! I have never been married, almost twice! I made the concious decision to back out before I made the drastic mistakes that would have surely ended in divorce anyway and I don't regret it either time! So I would now, as then never marry! What for? If I didn't do it then when I was young, why would I do it now? I feel that it just wasn't in the "cards" for me to wed! I lived with both ex-fiancees and I am glad I did! It proved that it would have been very wrong if it had gone any further! I am living with someone now~no chance of marriage on this one either although we get along alot better than the other two x's!
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@jerzgirl (9384)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Hey, Opal. I loved that one sentence you wrote - I have never been married, almost twice! I had to think about that one - never, but almost! Isn't that like a little bit pregnant??? LOL I understand what you're saying, though. I agree in many respects, yet realize that any relationship requires input from both sides as well as respect. If only one is working on the relationship, there IS no relationship. Still, not sure I'd want to be married in Taco Bell. I hate those rounded benches!!
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Well it is their right to choose where they get married. Must admit it is quite different. Maybe they are Mexican food fanatics and didn't want to take the time fixing tacos for all their guests. No matter where they got married I hope they have a long and happy married life.
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Well....that was quite the story...Hopefully things will work out for them and they will live happily ever after...
• United States
12 Jan 09
LMAO!! HEY GF!! Wow!!! Words fail me Jerz on that article and the wedding I was hoping to see a picture of them for some odd reason LOL! boy can you say "coo coo for Cocoa puffs"???? I can!!! There's no way in hell I'd ever do something like that , well maybe if it was a Long John's Silver's, no maybe Golden Corral, yeah buffet baby! NOT!!!!!!! [i][/i][u][/u]
@BlueGoblin (1829)
• United States
12 Jan 09
People in Normal, Illinois are anything but normal. I don't like going there because the people are so strange.