How kinky can you be?
By isabella123
@isabella123 (688)
Canada
9 responses
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
13 Jan 09
Well, let's see, lesson 1, needle play (see pic).
Some people like having needles (surgical steel, sterile) stuck through their skin, and some very nice patterns can be made. The ones in this pic are horizontal, but some like them straight through nipples, or plunged directly into the skin.
I saw one woman take 750 needles in her back (horizontal). It took four players to create her canvas, and over two hours of work. What she gets out of it (and other needle lovers) is a gentle but persistent stimulation of the pain receptors, which produce an analgesic which in turn produces a trance-like pleasurable state.
Lash
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
13 Jan 09
I never thought of it quite like that. I could not take that many needles but for me taking needles is all part of my service nature. I do what pleases my Dom and I gain pleasure from that.
I know I cannot handle a lot of pain but it is also part of the service part of my nature. I get a great deal of pleasure from serving and I get distressed if I fail in service. It is quite complicated.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
13 Jan 09
I could never watch it being done myself because I have needle issues (which is funny since I love being and getting pierced - go fig) BUT I'd love to see and would totally appreciate the end result of such art..
@isabella123 (688)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
WOW....I am....WOW. I have never thought that would be fun to be pocke with needles like that!To each is on,i'm not the one to judge other but that's a little extreme for me.Thank you thought cause i still find it very interesting.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
13 Jan 09
I am not at all sure that I have any weird kinks as such. I am a service submissive and my pleasure is serving my Dom. I find it hard to separate his needs from mine as my need is to serve his so his needs sort of become mine up to a point.
I suppose some people would think that was a kink but I just see it as normal.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
13 Jan 09
To those of us in the alternative community (for lack of a better term) it IS normal...to those outside that lifestyle though I'm sure it seems quite ABnormal and even bizarre....
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
14 Jan 09
True. I tend to forget about vanillas most of the time though and from what I see of people in the alternative community I am quite ordinary. I suppose it is unusual in that many people would not understand the difference between chauvinism and serving a Dom but in my mind they are worlds apart.
One is voluntary and the other is harassment and force. As a feminist it took me a while to come to terms with my nature.
Still I managed it in the end.
Still I managed it in the end.
@UtopianIdealist (1602)
• United States
14 Jan 09
I can understand not having weird kinks, and just getting pleasure for the service you give to your Dom. While I am into a lot of things that others are not so keen into, I think a lot of it has to do with his pleasure. Sometimes, I may even come up with scenes and such that neither of us are even into, he just becomes excited because it is "dirty" and I do because of his reaction. My most arousing thought is thinking of him feeling lusty and desperate.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
13 Jan 09
LOL well I've done and am into numerous kinky things...toys, group, swinging, swapping, girls, guys, BDSM and the list goes on...Good thing is, my bf is into it all too..my husband isnt though but thats fine
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
13 Jan 09
LOL yea pretty much...as long as nobody is being abused or hurt (negatively) etc in the process then its all good...I think the only things I'm NOT and would NEVER be into is the really twisted and sick like Beastiality for example..I'm a freak but not a sick f*** ya know
@isabella123 (688)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Toys,girls,guys,group that's all healthy stuff and fun....What ever make you feel good right?
@Danny08 (395)
• Canada
16 Aug 09
Threesome and girls on girls............been into threesome 3 times, believe it or not, all 3 times never knew in advance this will ended up in a 3some...love it though. Now, when I say 3some...I meant me with two girls. Will nEVER share a girl with another guy.
@billyfgibbons (193)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Toys are good. So are nice little costumes and whips. =D
@isabella123 (688)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Wher's your imagination...what kind of costumes?Is it like role play?
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Kinky? I am just a boring guy and kinky does not do it for me. There is no need for me to be inventive as long as I continue to be as imaginative as I am. Cheers!!
