Are There Times When We're More Open To Different People Than Other Times?

Anderson, Indiana
January 13, 2009 10:57pm CST
Check out these recording artists (three soloists and one quartet)... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1J-B5RMBKw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BDgnosZjWAU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uSuI5I_md4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dN3GbF9Bx6E If these people--all successful both in their time and decades later--had started out today, it might have been more difficult for them to get ahead. The first three would probably be told that they would have to lose weight to make it in the pop music industry, and--as for the quartet--three-fourths of them would probably pass the test, but the fat one would either have to go on a diet (or even get by-pass surgery) or else leave the group. Her other three partners would have the choice of being loyal to her or else taking the advice of the powers-that-be. The world would have missed out on some great talent if today's mindset went on way back when. I think there's a difference in believing that people might be in better health after shedding a few--or a lot of--pounds and treating overweight/obese people as third-class citizens. And weight isn't the only issue now. There has always been a certain amount of teasing that goes on in the schools--though it seems to me that, at one time, teachers were more concerned about getting it under control than they are now--but there are too many kids these days who actually have a legitimate dread of going to school these days because they know that they will be taunted and bullied for a number of things. Among the things that kids get taunted and bullied about are... their weight their body size (how tall or short they are along with other physical traits) their clothing their speech patterns and the list goes on and on. Too many of these kids end up taking their own lives--and, at times, taking others down with them. Others run away after finding nobody who is able to make it stop. Some of our Invisible Youth http://www.orgsites.com/ca/invisibleyouth/ have taken off because of this very reason--believing that they can find more peace in living risky lives on the street than they can staying in the situation they've encountered in their community. I'd like to get a discussion going re: why we have a climate where the pain of others has become a form of entertainment. What factors go into creating such an atmosphere? The atmosphere I'm describing is where people get harshly judged; where rehabilitation is seen as a fantasy of "bleeding heart liberals while "three strikes and your out" is in; where a blind eye is turned to kids getting taunted and bullied by those who should be in charge and controlling this; where "entertainment" gets done at the expense of others such as making a show out of putting troubled kids into boot-camps--and even the fact that these boot-camps have become so popular even when they aren't being televised. We need to talk about this problem, because it's not going to go away. We need to think of ways to fix it! And, again, we need to look at the kind of atmosphere that is breeding this kind of mindset and analyze it...
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
14 Jan 09
There are two main factors associated with all this. An affluent society which has provided home entertainement and junk food for the kids. As a result... we have obesity. 50 years ago... there was no junk food. Everybody ate real plain healthy food. On our way back from school... our thrill was to stop by the bakery and buy a hot bread fresh out of the oven. We took it home and devored it with a passion. It tasted wonderful. Better than any of today junk food. And once we ate... we did not had a television or a computer. So we went running in the street with our friends. And I mean running. The second factor... Someone had the bright idea in the 70's that we should have a multi-cultural society and make the world into one big happy family. This has created a multitude of problems. We had to introduce anti-racial laws. Anti-discrimination laws. But most of all... the biggie... political correctness. Only today... the two princes of the Royal Family are making front page news for using words judged racist and innapropriate... even so they were using them as a term of affection amongst friends. While the law is trying to prevent racism... it sometimes goes too far and it has the opposite effect. If you punish someone severely for using a little word... this person... more often than not... will become angry against that entire race. Lets face it... we are not all the same. Just accept it... and the world will be a better place for it. We look different... we speak different... our whole culture is different... our religion is different... some of our words have a different meaning and throw confusion when someone is insulted. John Lennon did say to "Imagine" a world as one. He did not actually said to do it.
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• Anderson, Indiana
14 Jan 09
That's an interesting observation. It's good to be kind to other people, but to have this "kindness" and "courtesy" taken to ridiculous levels by that mindset of political correctness could be causing people to rebel against it and go in the opposite direction. That is, the cruelty exhibited is a rebellion against artificial "political correctness"--kinda like saying, "Screw you! I'll be just as rude as I want to--and will, in fact, just see how rude I can get!" Again, great thought...
• Australia
15 Jan 09
There is no doubt that the social status of people does play a big role in things. But it still does not change their culture. They might just be more discret about it and try their hardest to blend in the culture of their new country. And there is no doubt that the behaviour of white caucasians from the lowest social background is just as bad as the one from any other race. I am not actually saying that all immigrants are trouble makers. We do share part of the responsability as some of our own people go out of their way to make immigrants feel un-welcome for no good reason. But that is where the problem comes from. There is still a large part of the community which is racist. You cannot change things overnight. It will take another 100 years to fully eliminate racism. And as long as there are wars... racism will remain. Because wars create racism.