How you Judge a Person ? like to make friends, fall in relationship
By dio123
@dio123 (1788)
India
January 14, 2009 5:33am CST
How anyone can judge a person before making him or her friends or starting new relationships like marriages, love affair or even making business partner. Tell me what things should we consider and what we need to taken care about a person before involving with him or her in our life?
hope, you can suggest your comments here
thanks
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4 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Jan 09
I don't judge. With friends , if we hit it off then we are friends. If we have something in common. With lovers, there has to be a chemistry and you Have to be on the same page. you know want the same thing.I have never been a business partner so I am not sure what would make me say yes opposed to no.
@Frederick42 (2043)
• Canada
14 Jan 09
The best way to judge a person is by making facial gestures.The facial gestures are always such that if you observe them properly, you will understand the meanins of it and even what people actually think, whether they like or dislike you, whether they just pretend to like you or not.
@mansha (6298)
• India
28 Jan 09
I think its the posture and appearence and the manner of speaking that makes a person attractive or unattractive. I trust my instincts and rarely I am wrong. I strongly beliee in vibes of the other person and somehow, you in your gut know if the other person is trust worthy or not. We all have manners of approaching the other person and some approach you that you also feel like responding to and wit others you feel like he is clinging or moving too close for your comfort or his speech or look is like a leeche you simply are on your gaurd. I would say 99% times I have been proven correct. Trust in your instinct and hjeart even if your mind does not know, your heart always knows.
@bubblyapple (2653)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I don't think the best word is "judge". For me it's more like how I decide if the person is going to be a friend or not. All of my friends, I spent time with them before we really become close. I am not the type of person who gets along with everyone easily. I need time to get to know a person before opening up. So with me, before I decide on whether or not we could be friends- to the true meaning of the word, I would have spent a lot of time with the other person first.





