Today was my youngest daughter's (3rd) birthday.
By hdjohnson
@hdjohnson (2981)
United States
January 14, 2009 8:44pm CST
Gosh, my baby is growing up right before my eyes. Don't get me wrong, when I say I like it that she is becoming more independent and less needy.
I do miss it when she was excited when I was home from work. My oldest still gets excited, so I still get the attention that I long for from my children. Usually when my oldest daughter shouts out daddy's home, daddy's home, then the other two will chime in an say it with her or after her.
I love them so much, how come they have to grow up? Are there any parents that can relate to what I'm saying?
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9 responses
@ersmommy1 (12587)
• United States
15 Jan 09
Heck yes I can relate. Yesterday I had a baby girl. Today she is 5 and 1/2. In 7 months she will be in the 1st grade. D*NM! Tomorrow we will be paying for her wedding. Believe me when I say you are not alone! Dec 10, 2008 I gave birth to a son. That was just 5 weeks ago. He has put on over 2 pounds and 3 inches since then.
There is a saying.. time marches on. They just forget to say it marches over your heart! We need to remember we grew up and our parents probably felt the same. Hang in there.
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@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
15 Jan 09
Yep, you know exactly what I mean. Thanks for sharing!
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@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
15 Jan 09
I've seen my wife cry over that sort of a thing as well. I'm just going to miss these days so much. My son is already taking on a personality of his own and he reminds me SOOOO much of myself at his age. He is very clever, but he can become easily sarcastic and get himself in trouble quick.
99% of the time, he is well behaved as are my girls. I watch a lot of sitcoms and television shows, somethings I wish we could be like the cosby's. LoL!
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
15 Jan 09
I do not have any children, but I certainly feel that way about my nieces and nephews. When I look into their faces, I still see the little kids that adored their auntie Rosie. The other day, my oldest niece referred to me as just her aunt, when talking to her boyfriend. And it hurt a little. Most of them are grown now, but I still call them auntie's baby's. My oldest niece has a son that will be three years old in March. He gets so excited when he talks to me on the phone. He started out calling me auntie Roachie, just like some of the rest, but he got it right soon enough. And the cycle of family love continues.
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
hello hdjohnson,
I know what you meant. Time flies really and our kids grow so fast.
Anyway, happy birthday to your daughter. Enjoy every moment while they're still so young. Spend more time while they still like to be you. For if they grew older like if they're already in high school, they have their own circle of friends already and they don't like us to be with them anymore as much as we like to.
And if that will happen, you'll miss them even more. So enjoy while they're still kids. Much of loving and bonding.
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@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
18 Jan 09
wow robert your avatar makes you look sooo angry, but you have such expression and clarity of thought in your response. Thanks so much for the birthday greeting. I do hope that whatever age they reach, that they will always want to maintain a relationship with us. It's only natural to want that sort of a thing right?
After all, my wife maintains a great relationship with both of her parents. They are both so thoughtful. I want the same thing when my children are at a age of moving on and out of our immediate care.
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Thanks so much for the birthday greeting and God bless your family as well. Happy mylotting yourself and welcome to the family.
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
15 Jan 09
I am the father of my children, not the wife. It's a simple mistake, and I don't fault you for not know I am the father writing this, since I believe this is the first time you responded to my discussions.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
15 Jan 09
Time flies by as far as our kids growing up. It seems like you just turn around and they are grown. It seems like just yesterday when my grandkids were wee ones and now they have turned 11, 13 and 14. I look around and wonder where has the time gone to. I do know what you mean about wishing they still had that excitement about them. In my case it is granny. They used to run into the house when they would come over and I would get the biggest hugs. And as they say time marches on whether we want it to are not.
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@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Yeah, my oldest still is excited, so I still get a bit of it from her. The others seem to chime in out of respect for her leadership, at least that is the way it seems ~ LoL.
@elemental69 (1559)
• Ireland
15 Jan 09
Gosh yes!!! I miss my kids running to the door when I got home from work and shouting mommys home mommys home!!! I have 4 kids 9, 4, 3, 2 yrs old. Even with the oldest I still remember the day he was born as if it was only yesterday. He will be ten in august. Two of them are in school now and another will be going to preschool in september. And the youngest will be in preschool the year after.... I dont know what we will do when the time comes when they wont be here during the day. They do grow up so fast. Sometimes it doesnt seem fair.... wouldnt you wish they would so young for longer?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 Jan 09
Hi hdjohnson,
First of all, Happy Birthday to your angel. Hope she is enjoying her day.
All parents are like that. They don't want to their kids grow up. My hubby is saying everytime, my elder son was small, 'let him like the same way and don't want to grow' and now the he is saying the same to the younger one, and I just smiling on his demand. I know what he meant, kids are so cute and spending time with them is really interesting but time is running so fast and they are growing. Now my younger is going to be two year in April, he started to talk and we are really enjoying the time spending with him. Sometimes I also think if a small kid at home everytime, it is really fun. But time won't wait for us.(lol)
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