Ever Beg Someone to Love you BAck?
By jcay_lorna
@jcay_lorna (433)
Ireland
January 15, 2009 6:00am CST
I have a friend who asked me if she should ask her boyfriend to love him back. I think she shouldn't do it but on the other side she can give it a try that maybe the other person loves her still and yet too macho to ask her again. What do you think she's supposed to do? Have you done this before?
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@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
I guess you have to advice your friend not to do it as love is never begged off nor being ask from someone. Love is a voluntary act from the person that wants it. If I were her I would not force love but rather the first thing that she should do is learn not to be too hard on herself. She musty learn to forgive herself an start loving herself before anything else. Why is she feeling this in the first place is because she herself doesn't love herself that much that is why she seeks the love from others. But I think she deserves to love herself first before anything else.
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@jcay_lorna (433)
• Ireland
15 Jan 09
I do agree although she feels that she needs to do this so that she won't regret it.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
15 Jan 09
Never. I think she should stay away from that guy till things cool off between them. If he really loves her, he will come back and she can meet him half way. If he has not bothered for quite some time, then its best to move on in life. There is always a special person for you in this world and you will find him sooner or later. Bye.
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
15 Jan 09
H[i]i jcay,
I haven't tried that, It's hard for me to advise her since I have no idea how they end up their relationship!
Anyway, if she really love him why not giving a try but if ever after the break up, the guy is not exerting any effort to communicate with her, to talk to her and ask her how is she, I guess it's best to move on![/i]
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