Is texting another woman considered cheating?

They are definitely hiding something. Their actions are really something to be suspicious about.. Simply texting someone else isn't cheating but when there's some hidden agenda, then boom it's cheating. You get what I mean. What makes things heavy is that there's proof that they're lying. Most likely cheating because there's the element of lying.

Normally, I would say that it is not cheating. I have several friends who are women, and I text them all the time, but I am not having an affair with any of them. However, because of the fact that they can't seem to get their stories straight, and the fact that they both seem to be lying about the situation, I am lead to believe there may be something more than friendship between them.

I guess it would depend on if the two people doing the texting where living close to eachother or not. words are harmless i guess, but actions are not.

In my opinion regardless of whether you would call it "cheating" it is inappropriate to do what he is doing and a total breach of trust. I would feel quite hurt if I discovered my husband behaving that way.

Hello hillgirl311! I am pretty sure there's something going on between them. Even the fact that my husband will text other girl is a big deal to me. He will probably explain to me. I guess she really have to confron her husband and let him explain better.

Texting...it would make me feel uneasy if my husband did it, but I wouldn't consider it cheating.... Sending pictures of each other....that is pushing the limits, BIG TIME!! What is the need to send a picture? Plus they lied about it. I wouldn't trust him. I am curious though how did you get a print out of who he texted? I tried doing that one time and it only showed me how many texts not who the texts were to. Could you see what was said too?

The way they lied about it sounds like there is something more than texting going on. If there wasn't they would not have lied.

127 texts would make me suspicious, I can tell you. Also the lying thing doesn't to do any thing for his case either. I wouldn't think anyone was cheating on me because they were texting someone, but the lying thing I couldn't abide.

the texting isnt cheating.. no. but the lying about it? that he deserves to get hit in the head with a shovel for. if hes lying.. hes hiding.. the question is, whats he hiding? i think yer friend ought wave the little printout under his nose, confront him about the lying, let the fights begin.. and when the dust settles.. maybe they can work thru it all.

it depends on what the conversations were about. since they sent pics to one another, then the "friendship" was getting ready to go to the next step. especially they were already lying about how many times they talked to each other. i have multiple friends that i text too, but each one deals with different parts of my life, but it's my husband that gets the whole package. if he's not giving her the whole package, he's cheating.

Yes,it is cheating because her husband wont lie abouot it if there is realy nothing happening...

Well I would definately consider this to be cheating. First of all I doubt that they have been just texting eachother. Secondly, her husband lied to her about it, like you said if there was nothing going on why is he hiding things? Why hasn't he intorduced his texing gir to his wife? I can't stand unfaithful people. If you are thinking about cheating, you should end the relationship because you obviously don't love or respect your partner the way you should. All I have to say to this guy is SHAME ON YOU!

even if they werent actually intimate...I would say it was some form of cheating... that many texts and pics too in one month...that would send up a red flag as far as I am concerned.

Texting another woman is or isn't a problem depending on the circumstances. In this case, I would definitely suspect that something is going on between the two of them. The wife needs to confront the him since she has already caught him lying about the amount they have texted.

I think if they haven't met, they will. It seems that they are lying to protect each other. This friend has to get her husband to fess up and both of them should go to marriage counceling so their marriage can survive this.

yes i would think texting is cheating. not so much for the texting more so for, i dont believe if the texts get more and more personal eventually there would come a time when you would want to meet. and then what? the texting could lead to much more and eventually it would be cheating.

Hello There Hillgirl311! I will based my answer to your story about your friend asking her husband about the woman he is texting. For me, it is clearly Flirting and cheating already!!! It definitely progress by texting to one another then having an intimate chat or whatsoever. I don't understand the reason or need for him to talk and exchange pictures and messages with her always when he have me?!?! Right? It is good thing that your friend has the courage to confront the woman and her husband about it. And if you ask me if I will do the same thing, yes, I would definitely do the same thing. I will haunt to know the truth about their relationship with one another... because with all the text messages and exchanging pictures, I am sure that there is something going on already. However, I do hope that they will be able to fix things. Thank you for the discussion! Happy Mylotting and Have a great day! Cheers!

no i think it's not cheating.even if you are meeting someone else as long as there's no string attach to the other woman there's nothing wrong with it just make sure that you are being honest,truthful and loyal to the woman of your life. happy posting!CHEERS!

If the wife did not know anything about her husband's affairs even if you say it is only thru cellphone then it is cheating. It's sad to hear that. The more he says nothing the more it means he is hiding something. No woman deserves to be treated this way. If we turn it the other way around for sure the husband will not be pleased too. When a man and a woman get married they promised to be true to each other and he is breaking his vows.

Hi, I guess it depends on what was exchanged in those text's. If it is innocent he should let his wife read the text's between him and this other woman. Well, it is not good that he lied about the number of times they wrote. Being suspecious I wouldn't trust him especially since she knows about the lies.She shouldn't do anything unless she is prepared to hear what he has to say, especially if it is not good but she needs to be prepared for the worst before confronting him with accusations.