Do He Wants To Stay Friend Or Become More????????????????????

United States
January 16, 2009 10:59pm CST
Have you every had a friend that you think is interested in you? He gives you signs but then the next minute he acts as if noting is going on, what should you do? Should I keep playing he game are find out what is up with that.
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@wendy82 (437)
• United States
17 Jan 09
To me I would confront the friend because to me it is none sense. To me I have this problem and if he wants to take the next step then he needs to be the one to make the move. To me I wouldnt give into the games. He wants to see if you give the signs right back. To me a friend of mine has feeling for me but because I have a man he is acting like a meanie to me but i am not giving into his games. To me I would stay friend no matter what. Because a friendship is not worth getting rid of.
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@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
17 Jan 09
i had the SAME experience. He ended up having a girlfriend 2 weeks after we "flirted" with each other. it was a blow to me. Well, just play along with him. He can call you sweetie, cutie, and all those sweet words. But as long as he doesn't ask you to be his gal, don't think so much. I was a fool to let my thought run. I ended up being the laughing stock.
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• Philippines
17 Jan 09
a very new member of the mylot community, that's what you are. welcome to mylot dear friend. may you stay around long and may you continuously find growth in communicating with everyone around mylot. as for that guy who makes your head twirl in deep confusion, just regard him as a regular friend. he may be just one of those guys who do not know how exactly to act in front of women friends. he had wanted to be friends with you so much that he has over reacted at first in your presence. that is one possibility. another possibility is he has feelings for you, alright. trouble is, he is still sorting his feelings out by now. he doesn't know how to proceed with his relationship with you anymore. so just play it cool and go on observing. who knows what will happen next?
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
That could be disconcerting to a girl if she also likes him but a girl can always get a guy if she wants. Cheers!!
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
This is something really uncertain.. I suggest you watch yourself. Do whatever you think you should but look after your heart. Don't give in too much. If you decide that you want to keep up with his game, fine. Just be careful unless you don't mind taking the risk of getting hurt.
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
yes,back in high school and also in college. i had female friends that were so close to me that i often than not think that we have a special feeling s for each other then later i found out that we are really just friends. i think it should be wise to play the game as it should be i mean don't jumped into conclusion at a very early stage.
• Northern Mariana Islands
17 Jan 09
i think that if you like him then flirt with him back and if you don't like him tell him to stop flirting so that you won't go crazy trying to think what is right for you.