THIS IS FOR THE GUYS and the women

January 18, 2009 3:41pm CST
Hey guys how do u know when a woman is being truthful in ur relationship? She tells u she loves u but u find out later shes seeing someone else without telling u. What goes thru ur mind when u find out? Can any woman be trust worthy enough to truly know what love? Now i will reverse that to the women too answer the same question but about their men.
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@KrauseHome (36738)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Personally I think if anyone dates much before they decide to settle down and marry will experience this, and unfortunately many Men and Women will experience this in Marriage as well. It is Sad to say that so many people are not wanting to stay Faithful to their partner, and usually will not admit they are cheating or Love someone else until they are caught. Personally if I were you, even if it hurts, it could be time for you to move on, and forget about her. Your Happiness is worth more than this. But at the same time if you are Married, it could be time to seek a Marriage counselor and see if the Marriage can be saved as well. No matter what you will know which is Best, and even if it hurts, will be better off with the choice you make from this as well.
@iriscot (1290)
• United States
19 Jan 09
I haven't had that problem lately, my wife and I have been married for 57 years now. I did have that problem right after I entered military service. My girl friend cried and had a bad time about me leaving to go to basic training. About a month or so later, I got a "Dear John" letter, so it didn't take her long to get over it.
• Japan
18 Jan 09
Dating men and women is just the same outlook with both party. Women and men finds another prospect if (s)he cannot find what they're looking for in a partner. I say you let go of them whatever their decisions in their life. A truthful man is someone interested in taking the relationship to the next level. Someone who does things to please his girlfriend and if he's seeing someone else he would appear cold. But whatever it is, it might be painful or not - it's better to let go of the person. We cannot hold or grasp them in our hands. If they want to date another person and would not stick to you, they are not for you. Coz if they are for you they would find reasons to stick with you and not the other way around.