How will you treat a backstabber?
January 18, 2009 9:16pm CST
Painful really. I thought that person is my friend, until the day i knew that actually its her that ruin everything, telling all lies about me as if she knows me better, bad mouthed me in front of my former bos. She's a true backstabber and i regret the very day i ever think of her as a friend. Until now, i try to stay away from her, not even trying to make any conversation with her, for me she is a dead person that i don;t really want to know anymore. How will you going to treat an ex-friend that is a backstabber?
15 Mar 09
i'm going to treat him nicely as possible...we won't be able to bring the friendship back...but atleast we still can be civil with each other...being nice will give him more guilt to what he/she has done rather than blaming him all the time...you have to move on...you won't be able to trust that person back aagin but atleast you have proved him/her wrong that what he /she did to you was something you don't deserve...so go on with you life and let him/ her deal with his/her own life as well...be happy..
15 Mar 09
if i am you i would treat him as she could never done anything bad to me. so she could realize that even if she doing bad to me i am still the good person she meet before. i even have the same experience with you. i thougth the giving back or treating bad back that person will do good. it is not good, but treating her right is nice way tyo realize all the good things that you share, so he could think if i lost a kind of friend like this.
15 Mar 09
Madam on your case better to skip for that person stay away to that backstabber ex friend find another person who will helps you to improve your career always think positive to your self and don't be afraid to that person enhance your self to be more responsible employee. Try to raised again your self be the person that has a self confidence on her own philosophy. the more you hate that person the more that you remember that person so better to find out a place where you can relax your self and to be absent to the present of that backstabber person.
14 Mar 09
I've been in the same situation. It's really painful when a friend do such things especially if you treated her a best friend. Well what i did is a confront her and ask her why is she telling those crap lies. She never gave me any explanation but she did apologize. I forgave her and after sometimes i found out again that she is talking bad words against me behind my back. I got really mad and i wanted to kill her but a common friend of ours said that i shouldn't lose my composure to someone like her. Well i let that incident passed away because i know i'm not at guilt and God knows best. As for you, i think you should calm yourself a bit and just hope for the best for yourself. So long as you know you're not doing anything bad, forget what she did and 'KARMA' will surely come to her. I hope i did help^^
14 Mar 09
yea, painful really.. u treated him as your true friend and you start sharing memories with her but then she ruined everything.. as of now, i do not yet ecounter friends who are like that, but if i am in your situation, i will aso forget her and i will regret the day day that i meet her.. why does she did that? i also will stay away from that person and i will avoid any conversations with her.. it's really painful.. she even ruined your personal life and that is so hard to think that the one who did that is your friemd.. :(
19 Jan 09
hi viana! oh so sad to hear that but actually that is true. if you had been backstab just try to continue your life as if nothing happens, dont show them that you are affected because it will only bothered you and but if you cant help it then just pray because not all the time they are on top they would also go down and fate will turn back the karma on them. thanks. happy mylotting.