I feel so alone...

India
November 9, 2006 5:03am CST
even in the midst of crowd i fell so alne... why???
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@macubx (11419)
• Philippines
9 Nov 06
coz you always feel alone.. try becoming friendly
• India
11 Nov 06
i'll try
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@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Friend makes you feel better. You just need a company
@prasad1961 (5601)
• India
9 Nov 06
Refresh your mind.
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• India
11 Nov 06
how
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@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
yah you're right... Refresh your mind. Go to a silent place and reflex. :)
• United States
11 Nov 06
I know how you feel. Sometimes in a crowd of people, we feel more alone than when we're by ourselves in our room. Hardly anybody feels like the people around them really know who they are, or understand their feelings, and that can be a very lonely feeling. However, there are two things to remember (and they might sound strange, so bear with me): 1) You are alone. Nobody can completely know you as you know yourself, so all you can do is try to represent your feelings and your beliefs as best as you can so there aren't any mixed messages. There may be people around us, and there may even be people around us who really care, but ultimately we are responsible for ourselves, and nobody else. It's not an easy thing to accept, but it's important. 2) You are not alone. No man is an island, even when he feels like one. You could not get through your day without all the people around you who do what they do. You wouldn't be able to get to work or school if it weren't for your employer, your teachers, your coworkers or classmates, even the guys who work at the factory that made your car. No two people are exactly alike, under any circumstances, but it is because of these differences that we all work together to create such a tight-knit and interdependent environment. Remember that just as important as people are to you, the things you do are just as important to others, even people you don't know. Everyone has the potential to make their mark in the world, to stand up and be noticed, it's just a matter of what we're willing to do about it. Good luck, and I hope this made you feel better, even in some small way.
• India
1 Feb 07
good one i ll try
• Hong Kong
11 Nov 06
Yes,I have the same problem too,although I have tons of friends,but I feel even more lonely then just by myself,weird.
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• India
8 Jan 07
what u do?
@Anulesh (1581)
• India
9 Nov 06
Do Bussy UR-self
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• India
8 Jan 07
how do?
• India
9 Nov 06
you have to change your way of thinking....any thing is possible....the will power of a human being is most powerful.
• India
11 Nov 06
ok
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@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
11 Nov 06
hmm maybe you are not hanging out with people that interest you? im not really sure what the problem is but i agree with some of the answers already..maybe you have depression and need to get help? maybe you are not comfortable with the topic of conversation? is it cause the topic is just not interesting..or cause you dont know anything about the topic? maybe bring up something that interests you and that you know a lot about because that will make you feel less alone.
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• United States
11 Nov 06
i know what you mean im married and i still feel alone
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@perugu (5279)
• India
9 Nov 06
hi,you know every body in the world are came as lone and goes as lone..so don't feel like that.. that feeling make some psychological damage to human being..we.mylot members are here to relieve from lonliness..all the best.
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• India
9 Nov 06
well, y do u feel alone. do u think of someone or do u feel out of place...whats the reason.
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@_hope_ (3906)
• Australia
9 Nov 06
you need to talk to someone about it in that situation i just panic
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@ausnikki (4055)
• Brisbane, Australia
9 Nov 06
It sounds to me like you may be suffering from depression.Perhaps a visit to your doctor is in order.
@raghib786 (358)
• India
9 Nov 06
maybe you need to have frends...whr from?
• India
11 Nov 06
india chennai
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@00fear (3220)
• United States
2 Feb 07
because you want to belong with other people. i know how you feel, you are not the only one living like this. i dont have friends either.
@mr_ilham (1611)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 07
why you must get much friend to get all connection thank you
@sweetie88 (4559)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
Ohhhhhhhh. So sad. It so bcuz may b u r sad or tied but do n't share ur feelings with anyone else. U should feel that u r special and everyone takes care of u and is worried about u. Actually, when we r sad and it remains in our mind that we do n't have any importance in this world and we r n't special then we feel ourself alone. Be happy always!!!!!!! Best of luck for future!!!!!
• Janesville, Wisconsin
6 Jan 07
You may feel alone as you may not know or be used to any of them, or just not having much in common. But if you look deep down into yourself and into the earth, you will feel connected to the earth and the earth will remind you that everyone is connected to everyone else, and no matter where you are or what happens at least Mother Earth is there with you, and you are never ever truely alone. - DNatureofDTrain