Son shoots parents over Videogame. Blame the son ? I blame the parents

@hellcord (673)
Romania
January 19, 2009 6:01pm CST
Daniel Petric played Halo 1 and Halo 2 with his friends with a dedication that would put Radical Muslims to shame, for more than a year. A fanatical player, he looked forward with complete awe, to the release of Halo 3, and the uber gaming with all his friends. Then the worst idea since parenting was invented: parents banned the game from the house. The kid tried to explain, to show, to convince logically and perhaps illogically, that he loved the game, that he lived for the game, that the game was his life. No compassion. No understanding. We are the parents, we make the rules. He sneaked out of the house and bought the game. Was caught with it, tried to explain, convince, reason, no understanding. You kid, we parents. We make the rules, we decide for you. Later on, gun in the hand. Bang! Bang! Shot mom, shot dad, tried to make it look like murder suicide, but got caught in the act. Mother died, Father survived. Horrible tragedy. Really horrible and very sad tragedy. But as a former gamer, as a kid, and yes, as having not yet been a parent, I cannot help but blame this largely on the parents. You know. When your kid is THAT passionate about something, and you spend some time with them and talk about it, you know. You feel it. You ignore it perhaps, maybe it's easier to just 'act like a parent' about it, use the fact that you can order things to be done your way, but IMO when you see THAT type of enthusiasm in someone and just meddle with it, you're asking for trouble. Opinions ? Here btw is the opening statement at his trial: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_FFGA3kyog
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@baileycows (3665)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Ummm. That is what is wrong with this world blaming the parents. They didnt want the game in their house because they thought that it was not good or whatever. They are the parents and they pay the bills. He can move out anytime he likes. I blame the kid he knows right from wrong and his parents God bless them were just trying to do what they knew best. Their son was whack and he should pay for it.
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@hellcord (673)
• Romania
20 Jan 09
Oh I agree with you the kid is a bit wacko, no problems there, I'm just saying it's very unwise to act like a Nazi around psychotic kids, just because you pay the bills in the house. If I have a son and I see he's really obsessive and demented about cars or bikes or playing the guitar or whatever else (and chances of that are high when one is 16), I would definitely avoid saying stuff like 'that's it, I'll have no such thing in my house, from tomorrow you live without it!' If he's demented and psycho about things one MUST seek some sort of solution that's more gradual, less drastic and destructive, and less likely to leave a huge hole in one's life. If for no better reason, then at least because I don't want to wake up in the morning strangled by a guitar chord :D
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• United States
20 Jan 09
Of course the son is whacko... but how did he get that way to begin with?? I'll tell you how... it was a couple of whacko control freak parents that brought him to that! If he had been raised in an environment where he was allowed to make his own choices, which is his birthright, then an entirely different scenario would be playing out right now, guaranteed.
• United States
20 Jan 09
Any parent who tries to control their children and turn them into obedient robots rather than allowing them to be the freedom seeking individuals with their own tastes and preferences that they were born to be, deserves what they get in my opinion. My own mother is manipulative control freak herself and had hell to pay with me. Granted, I never shot her, I just ran away from home all the time and spent virtually all my teenage years living in the streets... when I wasn't incarcerated that is. And once I dislocated my knuckle when I tried to punch her in the face. Gawd, what a nightmare those years were! I learned from it though, and when my own children were born I never ever attempted to control them. I encouraged them to make their own decisions and stood behind them whatever they were... even if it meant allowing them to watch the horror movies that they loved or not eat their vegetables, hehehe. I have to confess though, when it came to video games I was right there playing with them.