what is your feeling when you see your husband's first love girfriend?

@Tinna_He (300)
China
January 19, 2009 11:28pm CST
I will be unhappy and don't say anything to her when i saw that girl.Maybe you will say "you are stingy".But i don't know why do i need be good for her.In fact ,that girl live near to my house.From the window of my house ,i can see the girl's house.she and my husband are primary school classmate.Last time she said she will come to see my new baby,my husband was so happy .After she came,she talked with my husband by dialect which i can't understand and they laughed. That time ,i thought she come my home to talk with my husband not see my baby. How about you?Do you have the same story?
1 response
• United States
21 Jan 09
I would feel the same way, probably. One of the many things that I love about my partner is that he did not have any real serious relationships before us. Living near where he used to, I often wonder if he will be seen in a crowd by some female he used to know, and I know it would be quite awkward. We have had it happen before when someone I dated when I was a kid came up to us. I felt bad that he had to endure it, though he was not bothered. Yopu should talk to your husband about her, and tell him if you are not comfortable with her in your lives.
@Tinna_He (300)
• China
21 Jan 09
When we quarrelled with each other and my husband went outside to be calm,i would speculate whether he went to that girl's home and told her what happened to him.That girl also has a sister who want to call my husband brother-in-low.she always sent messages to my husband.It made me crazy.This is the another reason which i didn't want to live together with my parents-in-low.Maybe i should trust my husband .Lol