Your lover loves your frnd.................

India
January 20, 2009 6:17am CST
Have any one faces such situation that whom u love had fallen love with ur frnd........
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4 responses
@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
20 Jan 09
I think I have somewhat experienced that kind of stuff, although it wasn't intense like love. My now ex boyfriend admitted that he had a crush on one of my college friends. And I must admit that it affected me so much that I tried not to bring him with me when I know that his crush would be there too.
• India
20 Jan 09
that fellow must not love u but have infatuation towards u......so i prefer u to find good bf........thanxx for ur respons
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
Well, like I said, he's already an ex so he's out of my life now. But I doubt that it is just an infatuation, because we were together for 6 years and he still keeps on coming back at me.
• Brisbane, Australia
20 Jan 09
First of all I keep myself away from this love stuff as much as I can. There are many guys admire me and may be loves me but they like me for sure. But I am not sure ho w many of them really want me in their life for life long because I believe in long term affair/ relationship rather than changing BF every now and then. I did not find any situation as you asked for yet but if I have my lover with me and I am someone's lover then definitely there is no such possibility to love someone else in my case and his also. Love and being a lover is most promising thing I can ever imagine and believe in. :)
• India
20 Jan 09
ya ur correct..............thanxx for ur response
@oyenkai (4396)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
Fortunately I've never been in that situation and I can say that my boyfriend is honest and loyal. I know that my heart is safe with him. I also try my best to placate his and my girlfriends friendships - they are friendly with each other and are in "honest" friendly relationships and I like how they respect the boundaries. Thanks for the response on my discussion!
• India
21 Jan 09
I know whome you are talking about. Well its like the film wedding crushers. This never had happened to me. and also i dont want to be in this like situation. IT is very confusing how to dealt with this situation. I mean whom you love love you best friend. Even it had been someone else it will not be so disastorous. ANyone except your friend. I always scared that whome i liked would like my friend who is smarter than me. I dont know what to do in this type of situation. And never want anyone to be in this situation.