argument with moms

my parents - my mother and my father
@tryxiness (4544)
Philippines
January 20, 2009 9:00am CST
I just miss my nanay. Last friday or thursday, we had a heated chat argument over a cousin who is studying. I wanted to show her my point (and I guess my stubborness disappointed her). She was a bit disappointed on this. And I started having chat tantrums. We have not chatted since friday. I just miss her. My parents are in the USA, and they will be celebrating their 32nd wedding aniversary. I just miss her. I know I will talk to her soon. Lord just guide my parents -- our non-communication has been quite defeaning. I have to break the ice I guess soon!
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@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
20 Jan 09
Oh hello there!!! how are you? I feel bad too whenever I argue with my mother. Sometimes we cannot help it but to argue with them when we want to explain our side but I do that with respect. i don't shout at her.. maybe when I was in high school or a teenager, I shout her whenever we were having a fight or debate but now, it is more of reasoning to her than arguing.. though I feel bad whenever it does happen... I am sure your mom will understand you and things like that happens. In my side, we don't really have arguments nowadays... like the old times... lolz... Take care. Thank you for the discussion and Happy Mylotting! Have a great day! Cheers!
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
Hello. Thank you for replying. My mom and I are ok now. I sent her a message saying I am Missing her. And then things go well again.
@galileo2008 (1168)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
Me and my mom had some heated arguments when I was a kid. She scolded me even if I did not do anything wrong. There were times when she told her friends that I was adopted, that broke my heart and I cried infront of her even if I knew she was only joking. Everytime she looked at me, I felt scared, not because she will abuse or harm me physically but because she looked angry. Everything changed when I entered college, that time I understood why she treated me that way. She was only protecting me because she loved me. I realized how much she sacrificed for me, and she's the best mom in the world.
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
arguing with my mom is very funny.. coz its crazy really.. we always talk over the phone everyday.. and sometime we argue for foolish things and we end up not talking for hours.. and i would call my closest aunt ever.. and their i found out my mom is backbiting me.. whahahaha i find it funny coz she's being childish.. but after that we get along coz my aunt would advise her.. and i know for sure that my aunt would back me up since am her pet.. whahaha i cant imagine not talking to her.. i love our everyday arguments..
@jasmin69k (103)
• Australia
5 Feb 09
we can't really avoid to have an arguments to our parennts coz that's the time also we can express our side but at the end we have to remember our parents still our parents..when i had my argumentation with my mom i feel bad of course but the good thing is we didn't end up with fighting and have a cold war..i must thankful that my mom is an open-minded person..