Do you like your bf/gf showers you with material things,or thoughful actions?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
January 20, 2009 9:14am CST
For me it's not the gifts or material things that I like my fiancee to shower wme with love, but being there with her thoughtful actions. Like when she hugs me tight, kiss me all the time, and always there to be with me. It's for better and worst. How about you guys? Good night!
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
I am like you my dear brother... I LOVE THOUGHTFUL WAYS of saying and SHOWING the magic word LOVE! And gifts would be just an ICING on the cake while in fact the cake itself is really ENJOYABLE already with or witout the icing. That is how I view this. Hope we have that share of CAKE everytime from the ONLY GIRL we do LOVE! God bless us all and our loveones as well. NICE TOPIC AGAIN...and again...AND ALWAYS!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
I did like what you' said! Definitely! So i gave you the best response. We have something in common brow. Have a great day! Keep on smiling! You take care! I am just here brow!
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
I know you are always there... but I still miss the comments from my BEST BUD here...YOU! Thanks for your sincere appreciation of my effort in responding to your WELL LOVED DISCUSSIONS! If there is a BEST TOPIC here in mylot... I WOULD ALWAYS NOMINATE YOURS! AGAIN Thank you so much.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I really miss my younger brow here in mylot. Just really loaded with work. I am always here especially for you brow. Miss yea! Have a loaded of work, and it's already bothering me. I don't know how to fix things now. Hay what a life! My fiancee might be on the way too. Kind a worried. Stork might be on the way, and she's worried. Everything is coming all in the same time! I am just here!
@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
20 Jan 09
Love is definitely more important than material things...my boyfriend's love is the most important thing that he could give me and not any material things like stuff toy's or roses or things like that. Though, they are nice to receive, but all in all...love is the most important thing about it.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Hi dosky I will appreciate more if she hugs me and hold my hand, then gifts. Gift can't hug me. I feel more love with thoughtful actions. Specially when she tells me I Miss you. Have a nice day to you my friend! Keep on smiling!
@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Have a great day as well!
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I rather my boyfriend show me he loves through his actions. Material things mean nothing to me. I like when he hugs me, kisses, me, holds me in public, holds my hand around his family and doesn't ignore me around his friends. I love him and I know he loves me through his words and his actions.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi Jezebella, I am starting missing hugging my fiancee more then gifts. But do love her so much. Miss those days when we have time for each other. I hope and giving her time next week. I know she miss me too. Have a nice day! Keep on smiling!
• United States
21 Jan 09
I much prefer the thoughts. I like to give things but getting them... don't get me wrong, I am not going to turn away gifts but I'd rather have my mister cook dinner for me or make a CD for me. I don't know if it's really a guy thing or just a guys-on-TV thing but it seems like whenever anything happens, good or bad, be it a fight or an anniversary, guys go right to the candy and dozen roses. I'd rather have the cash he spent on those things! No, really, I'd rather have something that shows he put a little bit of thought and effort into it....like a homemade CD or home cooked meal.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Well your same like my fiancee when I cooked for her she loves it, there is a warmth smile that I appreciate. I don't like really material things. But the effort is counts also a lot. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@sunshine4 (8707)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I also agree with you. It is the little things that my husband does that I apperciate. I am not all about material things. I would rather have time together, watch a movie and snuggle on the couch.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
I rather have thoughtful actions what you said snuggle on the couch. I rather hug her and she holds me tight, it makes me feel better. The gifts can't hug me! What counts is she's there beside me showing me love and attention. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
20 Jan 09
Hearing my fiance tell me I'm beautiful is worth more than all the flowers and candy in the world. But when he surprises me with little 'gifts' - even just coming home with my favorite dinner or bringing me a coffee at work - I always get that warm, fuzzy feeling too. I don't expect diamonds and gold, just little things to let me know he's thinking of me are great!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi jesssp sorry for the late reply, your like my fiancee, for her usually it's the word I love you, miss yea, or your to sexy that for her it makes her day then the gifts. It's not the roses or the chocolate,s for her it's a big hug from me that counts a lot, it's more on feeling love!
@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I enjoy just thoughtful actions from my fiance as well. Materialistic things are okay but can get old and worn out, thoughtful things never do.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
You said it right that gifts can be worn out but the love that will last is the most important thing. Gifts can't hug you. But it will just makes you remember. But the love is you treasure it in your heart. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@rymebristol (1787)
• Philippines
20 Jan 09
i am not really a materialistic person. being attach to someone, material things doesn't count at all. what matter's most in a relationship specially with the one you loved the most is the presence of her during the most awful times of your life. the fact that she accepted you no matter what you are and who you are is already the most wonderful thing that God given us.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
You are right with what you've said. The most important thing is loving you for what you are, even your mistakes. Gifts are just material things and can't embrace you when your feeling down and out. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling! God bless!
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
20 Jan 09
I might seem as greedy.. but i'd gladly take both. Of course material things will make me happy and feel loved, but if that is without those thoughtful actions, it won't complete the "process" in my point of view. But if i were to choose between those 2. Yes i would choose thoughtful actions. No point having a partner that isn't there when you need him.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Hi my friend regal-aeros well if she gives me a gift well I will accept it with open heart. But I rather be hug, and she by my side especially when I am feeling down or tired. The gifts can't hug me right? You have a nice day friend! Keep on smiling!
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
20 Jan 09
hello n30wing! I would rather choose that my husband would shower me thoughtful actions than material things. What's the use of those gifts if he only gave without me feeling that he really meant it.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Same with me my friend aisaellis I will appreciate it more if she gives me a hug, specially when I feel down, that makes me smile with joy in my heart. Have a nice day to you my friend! Take care! Keep on smiling!
• United States
20 Jan 09
I agree with you. I would much rather have the thoughtful actions. I guess you could argue though that buying flowers is a thoughtful action as well as a material thing. But when it comes down to it give me a good back rub and a long slow kiss and I'm set for the night. :)
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
Well I more appreciated her when she show her thoughtful actions then gifts. Especially when I am feeling down, and she makes me smile, and make my self esteem high. I rather want a hug or a kiss from her then a gift. Have a great day to you tracie! Keep on smiling!