Is this Love??
@sharadagrawal278 (183)
India
January 20, 2009 10:51am CST
Hi friends,i have a friend in 11th standard. He had studied till 10th in a boys school and he took home tution i.e. before 11th he had not much talk with other girls of his age. But now when he has joined 11th standard then there is a girl who always smiles when he sees him. Actually he once tried to talk to her by the reason that he also goes in the same tution of her's,(since he had changed his tution after giving boards). She had studied in a co-ed school unlike my friend. So now he always asks me what would she be feeling about him. Does she like him or its just formal.
Can u all advice me what to say to my friend.
2 responses
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
20 Jan 09
well my first advise is tell yopur friend to face his studies and then if he feels he is up to to it he should first be her friend and see if both of them have anything in common
@sharadagrawal278 (183)
• India
28 Jan 09
My friend has already done friendship with her and now he tells me that there are many things common in them.
@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
20 Jan 09
This type of feeling at this age is very natural! This is called 'Crush' or 'Infatuation' whih means a mad liking without any serious thoghts or sensible reasoning!
Under Indian condition love at the age of 16 is not at all practicable ! You and your friend need to grow more to fall intolove
@sharadagrawal278 (183)
• India
28 Jan 09
First of all thanks for ur blessings and such a nice reply.
I think you are right, at this age it is very much attraction.
But then the question arises that whats the differebce between Love and Atrracton/Infatuaion?
I am searchng the answer to his question from long ago, can you help me?
