What do you think?

United States
January 20, 2009 1:54pm CST
I am going out Thursday with a very good friend of mine. I am a little nervous because I am scared that is all we are supposed to be. I have always liked him and adore his family. I have always wanted to be with someone who is my best friend, I am just scared that it might not be him. I so badly want it to be, but things don't always work out the way you want it to. Any ideas if it goes bad? Any ideas if it goes good?
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4 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
20 Jan 09
Well if going gets good then why are you worried. Just carry on with the tide. You are neddlessly worrying, just get out there and have a nice time, enjoy yourself.Just relax and focus on one date and do not plan ahead , tackle the issues as they arise. Just have a nice time with your friend and be yourself. Let the time and moment decide from there on. My guess is things will just turn out for the best for you, do let me know what happens next.
• United States
21 Jan 09
Thanks for the advice!
• Malaysia
20 Jan 09
just relax and stay cool. everything will be fine. the more nervous you are the more risk that the outting would be bad or something unexpected would happen.
@ninaluv (338)
• Nigeria
20 Jan 09
I think you should chill, and let nature take it's cause. you dont have to worry, or bother about making any moves. since he sees you as a good friend too. he's probably feeling the same way, but is taking his time. i wish you luck.
@ikzelf (59)
• Netherlands
20 Jan 09
Just relax, be yourself...it's good, then it's VERY good, if it's wrong, that you'll be glad you'll know it's wrong...