How to make married Life HAPPY ??

India
January 21, 2009 5:05am CST
There are lot of misconception about marriage. I heard a lot about marriage life like Its a adjustment, its a restriction, its a freedomless life. can any one tell me how to be make married life happy and enjoying life both husband and wife.
3 responses
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
You have married a person because you love him/her so you have to accept that person for who he/she is including his/her imperfections. There is no room for selfishness... While staying together, you should think of having good times together because life is too short to waste your time on petty and immature things. You should plan on how to raise God-fearing kids and how to have a better future living together.
• India
21 Jan 09
Thanks For you comments
@amitksing (1323)
• India
21 Jan 09
Actually it all depends on the person that are bound in the relationship. If the pair is compatible, the road of life will be pretty smooth. But even then since this relationship unites two people and since every individual is quite different from every other, there will be things and places where there will be a scope for sacrifice or adjustment. If they can go well with it, sacrificing something for their other half, the relationship will flourish. If the two don't feel comfortable with each other, then a lot of adjustments are needed to keep the relationship alive. Actually any relationship on this earth is bound around trust and sacrifice. If these ingredients are present in a marriage, it will definitely be a honeymoon forever.
@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
to have a happy marriage life, you should have this: love, trust, faith, respect, be open to each other...when enter to marriage life, you should accept that there are some changes in your life...being open minded, there are some things that you didn't know about your gf/bf right now as she/he too like attitude...there are some fights that will happen but you should know how to handle it, or talk about it, don't let the day past before you talk about the problem...always there for your wife/husband as she/he too....enjoy being both of you...have time to each other... be friends forever.... know your limitations when talking to your friends/ex/others (know what i mean???jealousy comes out/insecurities too but it all depends on how you treat them)... show to your wife/husband that you love her and respect her that there's no one who can change it and no one can get you out her/his life... keep your trust/love/respect to each other don't let other people enter to your life, i mean don't listen to any kind of story/speculations about your wife/husband you should ask her/his first b4 you get mad/angry... trust is very important, if you lose it you can't get 100% back again... being single is really different to marriage life.... happy mylotting...^___^