Want to knw something real.....

India
January 22, 2009 7:24am CST
hey guys i just had a shock when my girlfriend broke up with me..so i wanted to ask u guys dat what should i do to bring her back in my life coz i love her a lot???
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
22 Jan 09
first you would have to find out why she broke up with you, you can do anything to bring her back into your life without finding the reason why she left. depending on the reasons why she left you will have to take it from there, but you should find out first if there is any hope of repairing the relationship, if she is not willing to try again then you are going to waste a lot of your time and there could be a lot of heart ache for you.
@denise002 (444)
• Australia
22 Jan 09
it depends y she broke up with u. if its becuase u didnt give her enough attention show her u can make effort for her. if its becuase u gave her too much then the worst thing u should do is try get her back really quickly because she might just need some space. but stick around and show her ur a good person and do small things that show her how much u care. if ur there and she loves u back she will see
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
22 Jan 09
Well, I'm a girl, not a guy, but here is my advice: ask her to tell you honestly why she broke up, and be prepared to calmly accept her answer. If her problem is based in fact and is something you can do something about, ask her if she would be willing to give you another chance. Don't push her, let her think about it. Give her some space. If it's non-negotiable, then behave like a reasonable human being in the meantime. Don't stalk her or interfere in her life. Don't call her unless it's absolutely necessary. Don't beg and act desperate. Have some self-respect. The truth is that sometimes we don't realize what we have until we don't have it anymore. Show her you are worthy of her attention. Your girlfriend may realize that she misses you, too, and make the first move. Wouldn't that be great!