Do you open your spouse's mail or vice versa?
By sudalunts
@sudalunts (5523)
United States
January 23, 2009 9:56am CST
I will sometimes open my husband's mail, and he sometimes will open mine. We have nothing to hide from each other, and it is not a problem.
Actually, most of the mail is bills, and I am the one who takes care of the bills.
Do you open your spouse's mail, and if they opened yours would you be upset?
3 responses
@delmeg10 (112)
• United States
23 Jan 09
My husband normally brings the mail in when he gets home from work. Sometimes I'll be busy making dinner or feeding the baby or something. So, he'll open all the mail. Or vice versa. It doesn't really matter. Most of the mail is bills and what isn't is normally just credit card offers or offers for baby products. We both know everything about the other, and it doesn't bother either of us that the other one opens our mail. What's his is mine and what's mine is his. Good or bad. :)
@rantingqueen (495)
• United States
23 Jan 09
My husband and I share everything. He opens my mail, I open his, we even check each others emails on occasion, especially if one of us is too busy to get to it for a day or two. Marriage is or should be an open book. If I have something to hide, such as a birthday present coming in the mail, I will send it to a friends house so he doesn't find it though!



