Are you the one who control your fate? Or the fate controling you?
By kd6315
@kd6315 (174)
Malaysia
January 24, 2009 8:42am CST
Fate, is one of the things that you will never know it exists in the world or not. Since many people trust on they fate, and even done many things to change it, but did you ever think that is it possible to change your fate by casting a spell, or doing some sort of "magic"... If it is really exist in this world, isn't it everyone's destiny is fix by our God? If it is fix, how can a human change it's course?
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5 responses
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Fate is controlling me right now, and I can't seem to do anything to change it...
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
I do control my fate to some extent but oftentimes, my fate throws me a curve ball which I cannot dodge and it hits me hard. I then try to regain control of my fate which largely depends on my mind. Cheers!!
@kd6315 (174)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
Yeah, i agree with you. Sometimes we do so hard to control our fate, but at the ends we gain nothing but failure. Maybe it was our destiny. Somehow, i figure out it may be have some kind of meaning behind our fates. Maybe the God wants us to learn our mistakes from the past and our failure, in turns to lead us to a better life and made us become more prefect person.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
24 Jan 09
I think that fate and destiny is highly misunderstood...I am a firm believer that we decide our destiny before birth each life and everythign in our life happens as it should....Which means if something seems to be wrong or needs to drastically change and we either take the steps to changing it or dont - either way thats as it should be...There are needed lessons in everything we go through in life and how our lives play out is how we decided to have it play out...God or higher powers etc depending on what one believes has nothign to do with it....WE DECIDE...and with a good reason..even when it coems to the seemingly bad stuff, choices etc in life.
@kd6315 (174)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
Well, thanks for sharing your concepts. Yeah, i admit that our fate should be control and decide by ourselves, and not the God. We have the right to decide and change our path in life. But, i think that is just for those who had succeed in their life. What about the rest? For those who lived in the war country, for those who live in poor country? Are they the one who choose their fate and destiny? If then why can't they choose a better life? Or maybe it was their destiny? No ones knows. I think it depends on how we thought.
@kd6315 (174)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
Though fate is controlling us at our backs quietly, we shouldn't give up so quickly to our fate. Instead we should learn to control it, although it makes no sense or ridiculous to be done. Sometimes, i thoughts whether the fate exists or not, we should not try negatively, blaming it leading us towards failure. Instead, we should learn from the process, and took it as an experience which may helps us in future.
@michel_sun (219)
• China
24 Jan 09
This is a meaningful question. No matter where you are,the east or the west, Asia or Europe, there will be a word "FATE". But what is fate? I don't know exactly. In China, we have a saying "The heaven manages one's destiny". I believe you have something similar in your country. The concept of "fate" maybe came when our ancestors couldn't expain what they was facing. This is what modern science tell us. But I think there must be something happened to us that we human beings can't explain. Perhap that's FATE!
@kd6315 (174)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
Thanks for your opinion. Most of the concepts are just a prediction from our ancestors, even the modern science can't tells. However, it does not means that it does not exists, it just like somethings that we can't tell what it is, but somehow we can feel it, with our heart, when we achieve succeed or failure. Perhaps that's what we knows, "FATE".
