could it be possible?

Trinidad And Tobago
January 26, 2009 5:29pm CST
Do think it is possble to love and care for someone and not really be in love with the person.In other words,"you can capture my heart but i won't really surrender it to you,because you have not touched my soul"
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4 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
28 Jan 09
Yes it is most assuredly possible and I think this is far more common than most ever know. It is a very rare thing to find someone who will be a true soul mate. The real complication is that we can be attracted to another on so many levels. At times it is difficult to know what is good and what is not so good. One one hand if you wait for the perfect soul mate you may wait your entire life. However if you settle for attraction if may come to pass that once that attraction has subsided you find you no longer love or care. That is the complication. When someone captures your heart but you just can't surrender yourself to them you are doing two things. You are deceiving them and you are deceiving yourself. Sooner or later you both will pay with hurt feelings for it.
• Trinidad And Tobago
31 Jan 09
Thank you for your response.My sister can understand whay i sayin and dump that stupid boyfren of hers
• United States
5 Feb 09
Thank you very much Lomasbee for your best response. Very much appreciated and I do hope it helped.
@oyenkai (4396)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I think this is possible. It would somehow be a friendly relationship but not deep enough especially if the other party is aware that he/she does not really "own the heart" of his/her partner. There would always be a fear that that partner would find another person who will make his/her beat in love. That fear would deter the growth of true love between them. But if we're only speaking of "caring" for another person then it's possible - it's possible to care for someone else's baby as a personal nanny and never love that baby the same way you love your own, but you can care for it and bring it up as a good mother, right? Thanks for the response on my discussion!
@subha12 (18449)
• India
27 Jan 09
it may be possible it is true that love is definitely acring. but always caring dos not mean it is love. so it can happen
• United States
26 Jan 09
Yes i think so.I know some one like that thats why i say yes.