when to get a NANNY?
By kixsh101
@kixsh101 (2123)
Philippines
3 responses
@magicalmerlin (1623)
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28 Jan 09
I am not able to help decide this for you as different situations provide different solutiions. I just wanted to offer my sympathy for your situation. It is very sad that you need to find work and leave your baby with somebody else. It is a shame that you are not able to find enough income from the internet so that you can stay at home with your daughter. Have you tried to find work to do at home? Perhaps looking after other people's children yourself. I hope it all works out well for you. I wish that I was already making enough to be able to share with you.
@kixsh101 (2123)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I agree with your first statement most specifically the first line. Yes! You can't help me dicide in this thing but you have no right to tell me things like I am not earning or I was not able to find enough income in the internet. To tell you I am not here in mylot to earn. I am here to express what I can't express verbally. I am here to enjoy and at the same timw to learn. Yes! I had tried to find work at home, I have a small biz though small but at least I am earning so I don't need to worry much of not having a dime.
I want to stress that: People do have reason's why they wanted to work!
To work is not just for the sake of earning! It is also were one could grow and be mature! One will find lessons in life! To work is to explore and perhaps were one could value his life!
I don't buy your advice that I should take good care or look after someone's children instead. I don't find it as a way of an earning. If I will do it I will do it for free! Honest!
But anyway it's your prerogative and it's your point of view. Thanks anyway!
Happy Mylotting my friend!
@rainmark (4302)
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27 Jan 09
I think 8 months old is little bit young for your to get a full time job and get a full time nanny. In my case i waited until my son will get 1.5 years old and i find a part time job. It's better to get full time job when he is on 3 and on nursery in this country but when u are in Philippines, you can get a cheap nanny so no problem or just get one of your relatives to look after your baby or your mother so u never worried while at work.
@chance2691 (566)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
I assume you need to work full-time.
Take the full-time nanny, because you won't be able to be with your kids all the time anymore.
