Why we need friends?

India
January 28, 2009 9:02pm CST
I really wonder that why we want some one with whome we can share every thing. and why we need others to get emotional support and lovethat stays forever with us. Do we need the people those complete us in every manner?
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Friends are there to doubel our joys happiness and at the same time to divide our griefs and sadness. No man is an island and it exist among us.
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• India
29 Jan 09
yes you are right that friends are here to give jooy and happyness but why some time it cause to lot of hurting and sadness
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Yes it is normal to experience bad times with friends, it helps to strenghten the bond after coping. If sadness arise and werent able to fix then he or she is not meant to a friend. There are some other people who are willing to be your friend.
• India
29 Jan 09
thanks to take out time for writing on this discussion. I appriciate your view enjoy mylotting
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 09
It is said that a man is a social animal. One cannot go all alone all the way in life, he/she needs somebody to share her/his joys and sorrows, it is a inherent human tendency. When we share something with others, not only we share our experiences but also learn something from others. Imagine, if we do not share any of our feelings, with any body or say friends, soon, we'll start feeling suffocated and may become tense. Friends play a very important part in our life, with whom you can confide in and share anything. There are some secrets in life, which you feel comfortable sharing with your friends only, you do not feel like sharing it with any other person, be it your partner. We do need friends and friends do need us, without each other, we are incomplete. Good Post!
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 09
I fully agree with you that no single person could be creative alone, he needs some others to implement his creative ideas and to make it practicable and feasible. We are always helped by suggestions and guidance given by others.
• India
29 Jan 09
yes one need people all around. other wise the lonlyness make life hell and very boring to live and enjoy. no one cant being so creative alone we only learn in gropus.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I think we need friends to make sure we are not alone in the world with all our problems. They save us from ourselves and cheer us on when we make the right decision. While we don't need them to complete ourselves(we don't need anyone to do that) they make us better people for however long they are in our lives.
• India
29 Jan 09
thanks for your time here
@imfr33 (98)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
We all need someone whom we can share our life with, a bestfriend. God did not intended man to be alone :)
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• India
29 Jan 09
yes but dont you think so when we found our self serrounded by so many people we need lonly place to think about ownself?
@umcane86 (65)
• United States
29 Jan 09
Honestly, I think at the end of the day the only reason we need friends is because we get bored being alone. I live alone and love my time to myself, I mean, I've been known to walk around in my underwear til 5 PM on my weekends, but at some point, you just need some form of social stimulation outside of a work setting.
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• India
29 Jan 09
thanks for your participation and your valuable views i liked your point of view
@ryuvinta (153)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 09
people is created to interact with the others. like hawa, she is created to accompany adam and have many children. just imagine if we dont have friend? we will stress, because we cannot tell all of our sadness to them and share our happiness, we can not laugh together and many things to do together
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• India
29 Jan 09
hmmmyou are right and i liked your view on adem and hawa example that i know from my MBA classes teachers examples
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
No man is an island. There you go. that explains enough. People were created to interact with others.
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• India
29 Jan 09
yes you are right that man is created to interect but i am asking about friendship thanks for reply