how would you know if your falling out of love???

Philippines
January 28, 2009 11:00pm CST
i really feel that my man is falling out of love for me. i know his not happy with me anymore. i know why he is still with me, because am sick and he dont want to hurt me. i feel that he is inlove with somebody else. i cant give him a child. i cant give birth. i wanted to die but i love my family and they are my reasons now why i wanted to live in this world.
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5 responses
@cherriemae (3373)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
oh common girl.. most boys are not really trustworthy.. they always makes us hurt and cry.. just stay away with that kind of guy, he will take advantage on you because he knows that you are in love with him..char!!!! girl, for me, family is that most important than anything else..i can live without a man in my life, of course, you can..just pray and ask God's guidance ok.. good luck and God Bless..
@ktosea (2025)
• China
29 Jan 09
all you said just based on your feelings,no concrete reasons for you to think that he do not love you anymore or not happy with you any longer,I think you should talk with him face to face to figure out what exactly he is thinking and want to do.you should not just suspect,take care of yourself and then ask him.can not give birth is not a serious problem, you could adopt and there is nothing difference
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@rsa101 (28259)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
I feel sad about your situation well I guess there is only one way to know if he's really out of love already by making a heart to heart talk with one another. But I guess you should be ready to know that truth if your suspicions are true. Are you willing to let go of him if in case he does tell you that he indeed is really fell out of love? Well for me it is better that you know the truth than live in a lie all your life.
@g_aileen09 (1354)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Hi! How long have you been married? And why were you able to say that he isn't happy with you anymore? Did he tell you? If so, then better believe him. If he didn't tell you, then probably you're getting everything wrong. What if he really loves you and doesn't want to leave you simply because he can't live without you? And that he's hoping you'd overcome whatever illness you have so you could go on and live together even in the absence of children? Cheer up! Don't invite negative things in your thought. Think optimistic. He loves you.
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
29 Jan 09
Why don't you have a heart to heart talk with him? Ask him to be open to you and say you are willing to let him go if he's no longer happy. Well, are you?
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