Do you speak up with your partner or always hear him speak up his problems??

We do. We love doing it. We talk every night before going to sleep. That has been our daily habit as we lie on our bed each night. That, for us, is a very healthy way of maintaining good relationship between the two of us. I love my wife very much and it really pays to have open communication lines.

well,I think one of them must be talkative and another not,so one could speak up and the other will be his or her listener,I don't think it's unfair or something, if normal for the couples,they don't always have similar habits.