Do you mind your lover's age?
By tudors
@tudors (1556)
China
January 29, 2009 6:45am CST
When choosing a spouse or a lover, do you consider their age a lot? In china, over 98% men care about age a lot. They only wish to find a young, younger, much younger wife or lover.
while I hear, in Japan, boys respect and adore elder or older lady a lot.
So would you prefer a younger or older lover?
4 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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29 Jan 09
My partner is 12 years older than me im 24(almost 25) and he is 36 (almost 37) his age has never been a problem and I cant ever see it becoming a problem either.
Some people did say it would last well we have been together 7 yeas and we are still very happy with two beautiful little girls and planning a third baby.
I find age only matters to those outside of the relationship not to the actual couple!
@kezabelle (2974)
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29 Jan 09
Nope if he was 12 years younger than me it wouldnt matter either, it might to others but thats their problem!
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
29 Jan 09
Well I am happily married and have been for 26 years even though my wife is older than me, I have learned to accept it.
She is six months older. :)
Now if I happen to out live her I am sure I would look for a much younger woman. I will likely need someone to help me get around.
Seriously I have never really thought about age and marriage too much. For me it's about how we connect.
@tudors (1556)
• China
29 Jan 09
haha, i once had a boy who is 4 years old younger than me. my parents oppose a little cause they don't think it will do and as times proves, they are right. then there was a time when i wish an older one. but now i change back, if given younger and much older, i prefer a younger one. Maturing isn't judged by age.
@BlueGoblin (1829)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I don't mind. However, I would rather be older because I would like to die first and leave her mourning. lol
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
29 Jan 09
Well I am married and my husband is six years older than me, however I hate having a husband who is thirty older than me or thiry years younger. I think age matters, the way he thinks and acts. I think personally I will not go for a man who is more that 10 years older or younger than me.
