relation ship kills me!

India
January 29, 2009 7:11am CST
i'm not very good at relationships.its easy to make them,but its very hard to keep them going.how do you do it?
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6 responses
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
29 Jan 09
Wow, happy to know that someone belongs to my category. Even I find it hard to keep the relationships. If any relationship stays it is because of other persons effort, I am too lethargic to do any efforts, the only thing I do is pray to God that keep good people around me always.
• India
29 Jan 09
so got a company.so how do u get along?
• United States
29 Jan 09
It's constant work and effort. By work, I don't mean daunting tasks that everyone hates doing. I mean the kind of work that goes into doing something that is truly worth the effort. There are TONS of websites and books teaching people how to work towards having a good relationship. I believe Dr. Phil has a fourteen day challenge posted on his website about how to make a relationship work, as a matter of fact.
• India
29 Jan 09
no shortcut?:-)
• Dallas, Texas
29 Jan 09
You have to give and take a little in a relationship. If your not concerned about keeping the relationship - they will all probably fall to the wast side - whch is cool with some people. Maybe relationships are just not for you.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Well, that would happen if you are not ready before you go into a relationship. It's not always fun, there will be times when you wished you were single, but then if you truly love the person, and the person loves you in return, both can work to make the relationship successful. Know what you want. Good luck!
• China
29 Jan 09
Well ,there are all kinds of relationships in our personal life and social life.Some relationship exists because we need them to make our life better.In other words ,we may use them to realize our purpose.We may find it hard to keep good relaitonship with those who are not our close friends ,but our business cooperators.That's because when we keep relationship with them ,we have some interests but don't know what he is interested in or what he thinks.Therefore ,just take it easy.Treat him as your ordinary friends,or just an ordinary person.Be confident with yourself.Happy mylotting!
@fizanali (478)
• Pakistan
29 Jan 09
I prefer not to make relationships which I can't keep, it's all about your mental maturity, you should know which relations could be easily kept by you.By being who you are and not pretending to be some one else just for the other person you stand a better chance to have a long lasting relation.