tell me this one

@weasel81 (2501)
Australia
January 29, 2009 9:03pm CST
can anyone tell this. why can guys have a good perv on a woman when he's actually with someone else, and if us girls have a perv on a guy all hell breaks lose. even just look side ways,
2 responses
@JenInTN (27547)
• United States
30 Jan 09
Sounds like your guy is very jealous. You have the right to look sideways without being accused. Usually if someone is like that it's because they are guilty of something themselves. It's not fair to you for him to make you worry about such nonsense as that. Take care.
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
30 Jan 09
he's been like all through the relationship, so don't even mention if i have a perv. like i said to my work mate while back i look but not touch. no harm in looking. i'm not bothered about either, i usually make a rude comment. thanks
@spalladino (17923)
• United States
30 Jan 09
Not all guys are like that...and not all girls are accepting of her partner looking either. If your guy gets all bent out of shape just because you look at someone else sideways that's a sign of insecurity on his part. It's something that he needs to work on and since most guys aren't so great in the communication department, good luck getting him to talk about his feelings and why he feels so threatened by simple looking.
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
30 Jan 09
yeah i get fed up with him being able to make a comment and i can't do anything. fat chance on getting him to talk about feelings, got a big enough problem that he thinks i'm having an affair with my work mate. plus his dad still likes a perv. thanks